We have examined the evidence in connection with the alleged errors of the court in refusing to correct the finding, and are of opinion that the finding must stand as the court finally made it.
The remaining question in the case is whether the *Page 694 finding supports the conclusion that the defendant was guilty of "intolerable cruelty" within the meaning of the statute (§ 5280).
There is no finding of substantial bodily injury inflicted on the plaintiff, or of threats of bodily injury made under such circumstances as to excite a reasonable apprehension of serious bodily harm in a man fifty-two years old and in good health, as the plaintiff is found to be. There were some assaults without any finding of substantial injury, and some threats of bodily injury without any finding of even temporary mental suffering caused thereby.
During the last two years that the parties lived together there are findings of offensive and disgusting conduct, and of insulting and indecent language, on the part of the defendant, including loose charges of adultery. But the record contains no finding as to the effect which this conduct and language had on the plaintiff, except that it has not impaired his health. Nor is it a necessary inference from the finding that the defendant's conduct and language was "of such a nature as to be intolerable and to render a continuance of the relation by the suffering victim impracticable."Morehouse v. Morehouse, 70 Conn. 420, 427,39 A. 516; Jacobs v. Jacobs, 95 Conn. 57, 61, 110 A. 455. That is the test of intolerable cruelty which we have adopted. "Mere faults of temper and of manner do not constitute such cruelty." Morehouse v. Morehouse. It is the "unbearable character" of the defendant's conduct that makes it a ground of divorce. Jacobs v.Jacobs. Whether it is or is not unbearable must in each case depend on its effect, physical or mental, or both, upon the victim; and this record is fatally defective for lack of any finding on that point.
We repeat, that the findings of specific acts of cruelty are not of such a character as to compel the inference *Page 695 of fact that they must have been intolerable to a man of the plaintiff's age and health. Nor does it appear that the plaintiff is not robust in point of temperament. It is found that the plaintiff twice choked the defendant under more or less provocation, and that the plaintiff and defendant on various occasions cursed and swore at each other, and used obscene language in the presence of each other. These findings do not indicate such a degree of refinement and sensitiveness on the plaintiff's part as would necessarily unfit him to endure similar outbreaks of temper and manners on the part of the defendant.
There is error, and the cause is remanded with direction to set aside the judgment for the plaintiff and to enter judgment for the defendant.
In this opinion the other judges concurred.