Lund v. Lund

I cannot agree with Mr. Justice WIEST'S opinion which affirms the trial court's dismissal of plaintiff's suit for divorce. Careful study of the record is firmly convincing that had this court occupied the position of the trial court, it would have reached a different conclusion.

A supplemental statement of facts is necessary. Plaintiff and defendant were married in 1919 and lived together until about May 31, 1942, when they *Page 399 separated. Eight children were born of such marriage, five of whom, all girls, ranging in age from 7 to 21 years, were living at the time of trial. Plaintiff is about 42 and defendant about 54 years of age. In support of her allegations of extreme and repeated cruelty, plaintiff testified in part:

"When we went to town, I generally went after groceries or something essential and my husband went to a beer tavern.

"My husband used profanity towards me excessively. He called me a God-damned son-of-a-bitch, an old whore, a brainless idiot. He didn't use these words just occasionally, but almost every day. He used these terms in the presence of others, in the presence of our children and in the presence of our younger children. He used these terms in the presence of two or three of my friends.

"My husband threatened to do me bodily harm. He said he was going to kill me and hang me to a telephone pole. He made these threats before our children.

"My husband struck me and his conduct toward me made me afraid of him and nervous. It made me sick at times.

"On frequent occasions my husband was intoxicated. One night in May, 1942, just a few days before I left, he was intoxicated at our residence at about 12 o'clock at night. Mr. and Mrs. Minard, our younger daughters, Evelyn, Charlotte and Trinna Jean and myself were there. * * * My husband and Mr. Minard were intoxicated and quarrelled over the claim that Mr. Lund (defendant) had been familiar with Mrs. Minard. The quarrel took place in the presence of my children, and profanity was used. Mr. Lund threatened Mrs. Minard with violence. * * *

"My husband's attitude toward his children was that he wanted to be a dictator. He wanted to be God over them and tell them exactly what they could *Page 400 do. He informed my children that they didn't have to mind me and only had to mind him. He did not furnish the necessary medical care for the children. * * *

"My husband didn't want my children to read anything. If we were reading he would just take the magazines and burn them up or if we had a book he would just kick it away. * * *

"I left Mr. Lund with the intention of separating from him because it got so I couldn't stand it to live with him any more. He never was good to me. He never came to the house but what he was swearing at me. I just couldn't stand it any more."

Their 14-year-old daughter Charlotte, called as a witness by plaintiff, testified in part:

"My father objected to our reading any literature or books of any kind. He objected to everything I read. I was even reading a book of fairy tales when he tore it out of my hands, kicked it and tore it all up. * * * My father said we didn't have to mind our mother. * * *

"I heard my father use swear words toward my mother. He called her a dirty old whore, a God-damned son-of-a-bitch, a dirty old bastard. He said he was going to take her clothes off and hang her to a telephone pole and let her freeze. He said these things recently, during the last six months my mother and father lived together.

"I saw my father hit and strike my mother. I saw him do it during the period between January and May, 1942. He would go into the kitchen and hit her just as hard as he could and then pretend it was a joke. * * * I was afraid of him. He was always so mean. He would bring up his fist as if to hit us when he spoke to us and he swore so much. * * *

"I heard my father threaten my mother. He said he would kill her. The last time he said it was just before we came here. * * * *Page 401

"My father was intoxicated on frequent occasions that I know of. He was intoxicated a great deal of the time during the last six months my mother and father lived together. When he was intoxicated he would act silly, swear, and holler and get mad. He would bring liquor to our home. * * *

"I haven't turned against my father. I was always afraid of him. * * * I don't call my father a drunkard because he wasn't drunk all of the time."

Their 21-year-old daughter Ruth, called as a witness by herfather, testified in part:

"I left home in 1939. There were lots of reasons. I couldn't stand to see my mother and sisters mistreated. * * *

"Always she was crying and he was doing something mean. * * *

"Did I hear my father use profanity? Oh, always. Just like they said. He called her an old slut. Yes, he called her a son-of-a-bitch. Did he use the word God-damn quite often? Oh, always.

"When I visited my father after I was 18 years of age my father was always in an intoxicated condition when I was home. He would come home over week-ends and he would always drink. I can never remember a week-end that he didn't have a hangover. I was always afraid for my sisters and my mother. Not so much for myself or my sisters because kids can take a lot of hitting around. But I was always afraid for my mother. * * *

"My mother's conduct toward my younger sisters was not reproachable in any way. She never drank, she never smoked, she never went any place but us children were with her. She never did anything wrong."

Their 19-year-old daughter Ethel, called as a witness by herfather, testified in part:

"My father considers himself God, I guess. I can't remember my father acting very good to my *Page 402 mother unless it was in the first stages when he was drinking. Then he was very happy, but after he took a little more he was very ugly. He would be mean to the children. Many times he hit my mother. * * *

"I have seen my father intoxicated many times. * * * He used to throw things, that was a common occurrence. My mother would pick them up and clean up the mess afterwards. She would try to calm him down. My father used to mistreat my cat and dog. He was always hurting some animal that was small, some little animal.

"Q. Did you ever hear your father call your mother names?

"A. All my life.

"Q. What did he call her?

"A. Do I have to answer?

"Q. Yes.

"A. He called her a slut, and a whore, and * * * a son-of-a-bitch."

One of the daughters testified that defendant said "he could have Mrs. Minard any time he wanted her and that he had had her." There was other evidence to his discredit, which it is unnecessary to relate. The trial court discredited the testimony of the daughters, but the superintendent of the school which three of them attended, and from which Ruth and Ethel were graduated, said that he had always found them honest and reliable and that "they seemed to be healthy, normal young ladies." Although, in some instances, the daughters' conduct might have been subject to criticism, we find no grounds for materially discrediting their testimony regarding their father's conduct.

There was ample testimony establishing plaintiff's good character and reputation in the community. A storekeeper who was also vice-president of the bank, called as a witness by defendant, testified, "I know that the reputation of Mrs. Lund in *Page 403 and about the community of Sidney is all right." A neighbor, also called as a witness by defendant, testified that "there cannot nobody mar her reputation." Defendant's cousin said, "I know Mrs. Lund's reputation in the community. Her reputation is good."

Defendant denied that he had struck plaintiff or that he had been intoxicated or drank excessively. He denied calling her vile names or names imputing immorality, but admitted he told her "she acted like that." On direct examination he testified in part:

"Q. It has been testified you called her names such as whore, son-of-a-bitch and other opprobrious epithets. Did you ever call her that?

"A. No, I haven't. I said she acted like that but I never called her those names."

Defendant's cousin and other witnesses testified, in substance, that his character was good, that he did not drink excessively, and that they never had seen him abuse plaintiff or heard him call her vile names. Defendant accused his wife of deceitfulness, but it reasonably appears that their disputes and quarrels usually arose because of his attempt to dominate and rule her and the children in a dictatorial, cruel, abusive, and iron-handed manner.

Reviewing the record de novo, we are convinced that the evidence establishes ample grounds for granting plaintiff a decree of divorce. The trial court erred in dismissing her bill of complaint. See Goodspeed v. Goodspeed, 300 Mich. 371;Brookhouse v. Brookhouse, 286 Mich. 151; McCue v. McCue,191 Mich. 1; Emery v. Emery, 181 Mich. 146; Jarstfer v.Jarstfer, 162 Mich. 196; Berryman v. Berryman, 59 Mich. 605.

The parties own several parcels of real estate and also some personal property aside from their household furniture and furnishings, and as they had *Page 404 practically nothing at the time of their marriage, it may reasonably be inferred that the accumulation of such property resulted from their mutual efforts. Plaintiff is entitled to an equitable and proper share of such real and personal property.

It appears that plaintiff removed a substantial part of the household furniture and furnishings from the farm home at the time of their separation, and each party should retain and own that part of such furniture and furnishings now in his or her possession.

We recognize that because of her age and lack of business or industrial experience, plaintiff may find it difficult to support and maintain herself. A reasonable amount should be awarded for her support and maintenance, which amount should be subject to modification or change from time to time, depending upon the earnings, financial condition, and circumstances of the parties.

Plaintiff should be given the custody and care of the two youngest children, Charlotte and Trinna Jean, and defendant should pay a reasonable amount for their support and maintenance until they attain the age of 17 years. He should also pay a reasonable amount for plaintiff's attorney fees and pay the expenses necessarily incurred by her in connection with this suit and appeal.

The decree of the trial court dismissing plaintiff's bill of complaint is vacated and set aside. A decree may be entered in this court granting plaintiff an absolute divorce and giving her the custody and care of the two youngest children. Such decree shall provide for remanding the case to the circuit court for determination of the property rights of the parties, for the granting of an allowance for the support and maintenance of plaintiff and the two youngest children and for an allowance to plaintiff for her attorney *Page 405 fees and expenses. Plaintiff shall recover costs of both courts.

NORTH, C.J., and BUTZEL, BUSHNELL, BOYLES, and REID, JJ, concurred with STARR, J.