N.M.R. VS. A.L. (FV-14-0075-20, MORRIS COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-1957-19T2

N.M.R.,

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

A.L.,

Defendant-Appellant.
_______________________

Submitted December 14, 2020 – Decided January 15, 2021

Before Judges Messano and Suter.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Morris County,
Docket No. FV-14-0075-20.

William J. Rush, attorney for appellant.

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM
 Defendant A.L.1 appeals from a final restraining order (FRO) entered on

December 4, 2019, under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (the Act),

N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35.2 Defendant contends the court erred by finding he

committed the predicate offenses of harassment and cyber-harassment, that the

FRO was necessary to protect plaintiff N.M.R. from future domestic violence,

and that he was deprived of a fair trial. We affirm the FRO, limited to the

predicate act of harassment.

I.

Plaintiff filed a complaint under the Act on July 15, 2019, requesting a

temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant for the predicate acts of

harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4, and cyber-harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4.1.3 An

FRO hearing was conducted on December 4, 2019. We relate the evidence from

that hearing.

1
We use initials to protect the identity of victims of domestic violence and to
preserve the confidentiality of these proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d)(9) to -(10).
2
N.J.R. did not file a brief.
3
Defendant did not include a copy of the initial complaint. He included the
amended TRO dated July 23, 2019 and as it was amended again on December 4,
2019.
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 Plaintiff and defendant had a dating relationship that was "off and on" —

because he was married— from October 2015 to April 2019. She broke off the

relationship after learning defendant slept with another woman. Shortly after,

defendant sent plaintiff text messages saying, "I'm coming the fuck over . . . [s]o

either you guys leave or call the cops." She agreed to go with him to the Short

Hills Mall, but they argued. He took her home, driving erratically and punching

the steering wheel, even telling her to get out of the car and then to get back in.

He apologized and wanted to take her out again saying in a text message, "I

won't be scary, LOL, if you want to get out."

Defendant learned in February 2019 that he suffered a reoccurrence of

cancer. He acknowledged he was not faithful to plaintiff and that "threw her

over the edge, honestly," but defendant claimed the medication, chemotherapy

and radiation for cancer affected his state of mind.

Plaintiff transferred her gym membership to avoid defendant. When he

found out, he sent her a text message that he would reveal explicit videos of her

stating, "Fuck you . . . everyone will see all you've done, every fucking video

. . . . Fuck you, fucking whore . . . You ruined us. Yeah. Now I moved on for

good."

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 Plaintiff testified defendant began to email her three times a day and leave

voicemail messages on her phone. On May 10, 2019, she told him to leave her

alone. She blocked all his communications to her. However, defendant

bypassed the blocks, using other phone applications.

Defendant continued to call plaintiff twice a week and left messages. In

one of those messages on May 16, 2019, defendant revealed he was driving

around plaintiff's house when she was away on vacation. Defendant called her

four times on May 23, 2019, using four different phone numbers and a

pseudonym. Defendant texted her that "honestly, you deserve everything you

get done to you and I hope Karma is nice because it's outrageous what you're

doing and done to me." He threatened to kill himself. She received a receipt

from her previous gym that defendant attempted to charge $3,000 on her credit

card. He accessed her "Quizlet" account to attempt to communicate with her.

Defendant left a voicemail on July 3, 2019, that "[s]o, I know you just keep

blocking everything and all that, which is cool, I guess, I should probably just

take the hint and not worry about any closure or anything. I guess I can't get

that. I don’t know."

Plaintiff filed a complaint under the Act on July 15, 2019, alleging

defendant committed the predicate acts of harassment and cyber-harassment,

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and requesting a TRO. She amended it on July 23, 2019, to add additional

factual allegations. The complaint was not served until November 2019,

because defendant claimed he was in the hospital for cancer treatments. He

continued to send messages to plaintiff on an application called "WhatsApp"

saying his love for her would "never die" and he was praying they would be back

together.

On November 26, 2019, defendant sent plaintiff this final message:

Yes. This will be my last message to you since the
police have been trying to find me to hand me a
restraining order for you. LOL. So, it's whatever. I
guess you're happy now, and I'm blessed to be able to
see you being happy. Even though deep down I miss
you, and I feel you miss me, too, that feeling has to be
washed away. I continue to wish you nothing but
happiness and good health and hope you and your
boyfriend live happy forever.

Plaintiff testified she was "very scared" of defendant and did not know

what he was capable of. She was not "living a safe life" and had been "in

hiding." Plaintiff testified she felt threatened and that messages from defendant

were "affecting [her] daily lifestyle . . . ."

Defendant claimed he was not aware plaintiff blocked his messages "to

that extent." Defendant acknowledged contacting plaintiff's mother and sister.

He testified he might have sent messages threatening to post explicit videos of

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plaintiff but could not recall. He denied communicating with her through other

phone numbers. He admitted going into her Quizlet account, but claimed this

was by accident. When asked about the multiple phone numbers used to contact

plaintiff, defendant testified he did not know he was "blocked fully."

The trial court found plaintiff's testimony credible "in all material

respects." She corroborated her testimony by emails which showed defendant's

efforts to try to communicate with her. 4 The court did not find credible

defendant's claim he was unaware plaintiff did not want his communications.

The court found this "unfathomable" because defendant had obtained false

phone numbers to communicate with plaintiff when she did not answer him. He

was evasive in answering whether he knew his calls were blocked.

The court found by a preponderance of the evidence that plaintiff

committed the predicate acts of harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(c), and cyber-

harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4.1(a)(2). For the harassment charge, the court

found defendant's conduct met the requirement through "repeated

communications," knowing plaintiff had blocked his communications and the

4
Defendant did not include the emails in his appendix. Plaintiff did not file a
brief. The emails cited here were read into the record and moved into evidence.
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lengths he went to try to evade this. The court found the same reasons supported

the predicate act of cyber-harassment.

The court also found an FRO was necessary to protect plaintiff from

further abuse. This was based on the prolonged period of time defendant tried

to contact plaintiff when she was clear she did not want communication. The

court found some of the comments to plaintiff "disturbing," citing defendant's

comment about calling the police, his comment that he would not be "scary,"

and saying "LOL" when the police were trying to serve him with the TRO.

On appeal, defendant raises the following issues:

POINT I: THE TRIAL JUDGE MISNTERPRETED
THE HARASSMENT STATUTE AND ISSUED A
FINDING INCONSISTENT WITH NEW JERSEY
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE LAW
(Raised Below: 1T58) [.]

POINT II: THE TRIAL JUDGE MISINTERPRETTED
THE CYBER[-]HARASSMENT STATUTE AND
ISSUED A FINDING INCONSISTENT WITH NEW
JERSEY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE LAW (Raised
Below:1T58) [.]

POINT III: THE TRIAL JUDGE'S OPINION FAILED
TO SUPPORT THE DETERMINATION THAT THE
FINAL RESTRAINING ORDER WAS
NECESSSARY TO PROTECT THE PLAINTIFF
FROM FUTURE ACTS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
(Raised Below:1T59) [.]

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 POINT IV: THE TRIAL JUDGE FAILED TO
QUESTION THE DEFENDANT REGARDING HIS
USE OF MEDICATION, THE AMOUNT AND TYPE
OF MEDICATION AND IF IT IMPACTED HIS
ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND THE CHARGES
AGAINST HIM AND THE RAMIFICATIONS OF A
FINAL RESTRAINING ORDER (Not [R]aised
[B]elow) [.]

II.

We accord "great deference to discretionary decisions of Family Part

judges[,]" Milne v. Goldenberg, 428 N.J. Super. 184, 197 (App. Div. 2012), in

recognition of the "family courts' special jurisdiction and expertise in family

matters . . . ." N.J. Div. of Youth & Fam. Servs. v. M.C. III, 201 N.J. 328, 343

(2010) (quoting Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 413 (1998)). "[F]indings by the

trial court are binding on appeal when supported by adequate, substantial,

credible evidence." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 411-12 (citing Rova Farms Resort, Inc.

v. Invs. Ins. Co., 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). "Deference is especially appropriate

'when the evidence is largely testimonial and involves questions of credibility.'"

Id. at 412 (quoting In re Return of Weapons to J.W.D., 149 N.J. 108, 117

(1997)). Accordingly, "an appellate court should not disturb the 'factual findings

and legal conclusions of the trial judge unless [it is] convinced that they are so

manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant and

reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice.'" Ibid.

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(alteration in original) (quoting Rova Farms, 65 N.J. at 484). However, "[a] trial

court's interpretation of the law and the legal consequences that flow from

established facts are not entitled to any special deference." Manalapan Realty,

L.P. v. Twp. Comm. of Manalapan, 140 N.J. 366, 378 (1995).

Defendant argues the court did not make a finding under the Act that

defendant's contacts were likely to cause annoyance or alarm. He argues there

was no evidence he acted with a purpose to cause fear or apprehension. At best,

this amounted to contretemps, not domestic violence.

When determining whether to grant an FRO under the Act, the trial court

must engage in a two-step analysis. Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125-

27 (App. Div. 2006). The trial court "must determine whether the plaintiff has

proven, by a preponderance of the credible evidence, that one or more of the

predicate acts set forth in [N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)] has occurred." Id. at 125.

This determination is made "in light of the previous history of violence between

the parties." Ibid. (quoting Cesare, 154 N.J. at 402). Second, the court also

must determine whether a restraining order is required to protect the party

seeking restraints from future acts or threats of violence. Id. at 126-27. That

means "there [must] be a finding that 'relief is necessary to prevent further

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abuse.'" J.D. v. M.D.F., 207 N.J. 458, 476 (2011) (quoting N.J.S.A. 2C:25-

29(b)).

A person commits the offense of harassment if, "with purpose to harass

another, he . . . [e]ngages in any other course of alarming conduct or of

repeatedly committed acts with purpose to alarm or seriously annoy such other

person." N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(c). In evaluating a defendant's intent, a judge is

entitled to use "[c]ommon sense and experience . . . ." State v. Hoffman, 149

N.J. 564, 577 (1997). Because direct proof of intent is often absent, "purpose

may and often must be inferred from what is said and done and the surrounding

circumstances," and "[p]rior conduct and statements may be relevant to and

support an inference of purpose." State v. Castagna, 387 N.J. Super. 598, 606

(App. Div. 2006); see also H.E.S. v. J.C.S., 175 N.J. 309, 327 (2003) ("'[A]

purpose to harass may be inferred from' . . . common sense and experience."

(quoting Hoffman, 49 N.J. at 577)).

In State v. Burkert, our Supreme Court held that for "constitutional

reasons,"

we will construe the terms "any other course of
alarming conduct" and "acts with purpose to alarm or
seriously annoy" as repeated communications directed
at a person that reasonably put that person in fear for
his safety or security or that intolerably interfere with
that person's reasonable expectation of privacy.

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 [231 N.J. 257, 284-85 (2017).]

Burkert made clear that the standard "applies only in those cases where the

alleged harassing conduct is based on pure expressive activity." Id. at 285.

Burkert also made clear that even in a pure expression case, "a person who

repeatedly makes unwanted communications to a subject, thereby intolerably

interfering with his reasonable expectation of privacy, will not find shelter

behind the First Amendment." Ibid.

There was substantial evidence in the record to support the trial court's

finding that defendant committed harassment. From April 2019 through

November 2019, when he was served with the TRO that had been entered in July

2019, defendant continued to call and text plaintiff daily. Defendant threatened

to expose explicit videos of her. Plaintiff blocked his calls. Defendant then

tried to contact her through special phone applications, false phone numbers and

a pseudonym.

The court found plaintiff's testimony was credible. We defer to this

credibility determination. See Cesare, 154 N.J. at 412 (providing "[b]ecause a

trial court 'hears the case, sees and observes the witnesses, [and] hears them

testify,' it has a better perspective than a reviewing court in evaluating the

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veracity of witnesses" (quoting Pascale v. Pascale, 113 N.J. 20, 33 (1988)

(alterations in original) (other citations omitted))).

Defendant's claim he did not know his communications were blocked is

contrary to his July 3, 2019 voicemail. Defendant did not deny his behavior but

blamed it on his cancer treatments. He did not present any expert testimony to

connect his behavior to these treatments. All of this was sufficient for the trial

court to conclude defendant engaged in a course of alarming conduct through

repeated communications directed at plaintiff, which reasonably put her in fear

of her security and certainly interfered with her reasonable expectation of

privacy.

Defendant contends the trial court failed to make detailed findings of fact

that an FRO was needed to protect plaintiff from further abuse. He claims

plaintiff did not testify that he caused her to experience fear and apprehension.

This argument is undercut by the record. Plaintiff testified she was

alarmed by defendant's behavior and changed her lifestyle to avoid him. She

felt threatened. The attempt to contact her was for a "prolonged period of time

where the plaintiff . . . made attempts to let [defendant] know she wants nothing

to do with [him], and [he has] not taken no for an answer." Defendant's contacts

were found by the trial court to be "disturbing." Defendant told plaintiff "either

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you . . . leave or call the cops" when he said he was coming over to her house

after the breakup. He scared her with his erratic driving and knew it, telling

plaintiff "I won't be scary this time." His response to being served with the TRO

was "LOL." He threatened to release explicit photos and video of plaintiff.

Defendant claims for the first time on appeal that he was deprived of a fair

trial because the trial judge did not ask about his ability to underst and the

charges or the implications of having an FRO entered against him. Howev er,

defendant gave no indication during the trial that he did not understand the

charges or the implications of the FRO. The court explained the nature of the

proceeding. He asked defendant if he was ready to proceed. He gave defendant

opportunities to expand his testimony. The transcript did not show anything

about the trial that was "clearly capable of producing an unjust result . . . ." R.

2:10-2.

Given our decision under the harassment statute, we offer no opinion on

whether there was a violation of the cyber-harassment statute. The harassment

finding under N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(c), and the finding there was a need to protect

plaintiff from further harassment are all that are necessary to affirm entry of the

FRO.

Affirmed based on the predicate act of harassment.

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