IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 20-0616
Filed January 21, 2021
IN THE INTEREST OF K.K.,
Minor Child,
B.D., Mother,
Petitioner-Appellee,
D.K., Father,
Respondent-Appellant.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Wapello County, William Owens,
Associate Juvenile Judge.
The father appeals the termination of his parental rights in an Iowa Code
chapter 600A (2019) termination action. AFFIRMED.
Robert F. Bozwell Jr., Centerville, for appellant father.
Cynthia D. Hucks of Box & Box Attorneys at Law, Ottumwa, for appellee
mother.
Mary Baird Krafka, Ottumwa, attorney and guardian ad litem for minor child.
Considered by Bower, C.J., and Vaitheswaran and Greer, JJ.
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GREER, Judge.
Citing abandonment, the mother petitioned to terminate the parental rights
of the father to their four-year-old child, K.K. The juvenile court agreed and
terminated the father’s rights under Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b) (2019). The
father challenges that order and maintains he did not abandon the child but the
mother and a no-contact order stood in his way. He also asserts that termination
is not in the child’s best interests.
We review private termination proceedings de novo. In re B.H.A., 938
N.W.2d 227, 232 (Iowa 2020). “Although we are not bound by them, we give
weight to the trial court’s findings of fact, especially when considering credibility of
witnesses.” Id. (citation omitted). “The Iowa legislature requires the best interest
of the child ‘to be the paramount consideration in interpreting’ the private
termination of parental rights.” Id. (quoting Iowa Code § 600A.1). But “[t]he
parents’ interest must also be given due consideration.” Id.
“Private termination proceedings under Iowa Code chapter 600A are a two-
step process.” Id. First, we must determine whether the petitioning parent proved
grounds for termination. Id. Then, if those grounds are proved, we must consider
whether termination of the parent’s rights is in the child’s best interests. Id. The
petitioning parent must prove both steps by clear and convincing evidence for the
court to order termination of parental rights. Id.
Grounds establishing abandonment.
The relationship of these unmarried parents was brief. They were together
for a short time before the child’s birth in early 2016 and until the child reached four
or five months of age. Once separated, the father continued visits. To establish
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paternity and custody, the mother petitioned and received a decree establishing
joint legal custody. The mother retained physical care of the child, while the father
received visitation rights and a child-support obligation. The father did not attend
that proceeding. The decree framed the legal rights of the parents starting in
August 2017. From August to December, the father maintained regular visitation.
Starting in 2018, the father’s visits became more sporadic with the last visit
between father and child occurring in July of that year.1 Communication between
the parents soured and often the father would not respond to the text messages
sent by the mother trying to arrange visitation. Although the mother tried to arrange
a visit for the father in September, the father failed to show up.
But in October 2018, the father requested a visit and the mother asked him
to take a drug test first because she thought he had not been acting normal. The
father then started sending ominous text messages to the mother and another
person, which, along with other inappropriate actions, prompted the mother to call
the authorities. Law enforcement charged the father with harassment. An order
of protection issued prohibiting contact between the parents, but it did not restrict
the father from contact with his child.2 Even though the protective order noted no
restriction on communication with the mother through legal counsel, the father
testified that the order restricted his ability to visit his child. Other than arguing the
no-contact order thwarted visitation, the father offers no evidence that he tried to
arrange visits or contact the child by other means, such as pursuing legal options
1 The last visit noted by the mother in her written timeline was on July 6, 2018.
2 The order of protection issued on October 19, 2018, and it was originally in effect
for one year. It was later extended for a second year.
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to re-institute visits. See In re W.W., 826 N.W.2d 706, 710–11 (Iowa Ct. App.
2012) (finding lack of contact with the children constituted abandonment where
parent failed to pursue legal options to institute visitation). In August 2019, after
more than a year passed with no visit between the child and father, the mother
petitioned for a termination of the father’s parental rights.
Additionally, the mother testified the father provided no financial support for
the child other than some diapers and a small amount of money for day care
expenses. At first, the father agreed to pay one-half of the day care expense. But
he never made good on the promise. And the court record reflects no formal
payment of child support. Explaining his failure to pay the court-ordered child
support, the father claimed to have never received a copy of the decree. Yet the
court file referenced a mailing to the father at his known address. And although
the father’s employment has been inconsistent, he has maintained work off and on
over the years he was ordered to pay child support. And often, he used work as
an excuse for why he could not attend a visitation. It is also compelling that the
father never sent a card or gift to the child. On the other hand, the paternal
grandmother visits the child at the mother’s home frequently.
Section 600A.2(20) defines “[t]o abandon a minor child” as when “a
parent . . . rejects the duties imposed by the parent-child relationship, . . . which
may be evinced by the person, while being able to do so, making no provision or
making only a marginal effort to provide for the support of the child or to
communicate with the child.” The parental mental state hinges on the parent’s
conduct in rejecting parental duties. See id. The juvenile court determined that
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the father abandoned the child under Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b). Section
600A.8(3)(b) provides:
If the child is six months of age or older when the termination hearing
is held, a parent is deemed to have abandoned the child unless the
parent maintains substantial and continuous or repeated contact with
the child as demonstrated by contribution toward support of the child
of a reasonable amount, according to the parent’s means, and as
demonstrated by any of the following:
(1) Visiting the child at least monthly when physically and
financially able to do so and when not prevented from doing so by
the person having lawful custody of the child.
(2) Regular communication with the child or with the person
having the care or custody of the child, when physically and
financially unable to visit the child or when prevented from visiting
the child by the person having lawful custody of the child.
(3) Openly living with the child for a period of six months within
the one-year period immediately preceding the termination of
parental rights hearing and during that period openly holding himself
or herself out to be the parent of the child.
The grounds for abandonment by the father were established. To put it
simply, at the time of trial, the father had not seen the child or attempted to see the
child for about one year and seven months. Likewise, he sent no cards or gifts to
the child to bolster the father/child relationship. Finally, the father provided no
financial support, let alone his court-ordered responsibility to cover the basic
expenses of child-rearing. The mother met the first hurdle to the termination quest.
Best interests of the child.
With grounds for abandonment established, we last look at whether
termination of the father’s rights is in the best interest of the child. The mother
testified that the child would not have any idea who the father was if she saw him
at the time of the trial. In October 2019, the mother married, and her husband is
willing to adopt the child. They have known each other since 2014 and have a
stable relationship and household. The child refers to the stepfather as “dad.”
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While the paternal grandmother has maintained contact, that relationship is not
relevant to the status of the father’s relationship with the child. See In re R.K.B.,
572 N.W.2d 600, 602 (Iowa 1998) (noting that even where the paternal
grandmother initiated visitations for the father, his indifference was the focus of the
best-interest analysis). But here the mother proved by clear and convincing
evidence that the termination of the father’s parental rights was in the best interest
of the child. See B.H.A., 938 N.W.2d at 232. The best interest of the child requires
the parent to “affirmatively assume the duties encompassed by the role of being a
parent.” Iowa Code § 600A.1. The past performance of the father answers this
question. The father produced no compelling evidence to support a determination
it is in the child’s best interests that he retains his parental rights and did not even
show a bond between him and the four-year-old child. Considering the best
interest of the child, we choose proven stability over promises.
We affirm the juvenile court order terminating the father’s rights.
AFFIRMED.