Danforth v. Danforth

Walton, J.

The question is this : If a wife deserts her husband, and remains away from him for three consecutive years, and, during all that time, continuously and unreasonably refuses to return, will the fact that, within the three years, her husband once visited her and occupied the same bed with her for two or three uights, necessarily interrupt the desertion and bar his right to a divorce for that cause?

We think not. Desertion, such as will be a valid cause for a divorce, is not easily defined. Stewart v. Stewart, 78 Maine, 548, and cases there cited. And it may be equally difficult to define what will constitute an interruption or condonation of desertion. The authorities are conflicting and confusing.

In Kennedy v. Kennedy, 87 Ill. 250, where a wife, without justification, refused to go to a new home which her husband had prepared for her, and remained away for the statutory length of time necessary to create a valid ground for divorce, the court held that the fact that, on one occasion, he cohabited with her at her brother’s house, did not interrupt the desertion or bar his right to a divorce.

And we have reached the same conclusion. "Utter desertion continued for three consecutive years,” is one of the causes for which a divorce may be granted, K,. S., c. 60, § 2. And we think that if a ivife deserts her husband and remains away from him for the full period of three consecutive years, and, during all that time, continuously and unreasonably refuses to return, his right to a divorce is complete, and can not be defeated by proof that on one occasion, within the three years, he visited his wife, and, for two or three nights, occupied the same bed with her.

Such a visit is not illegal or improper. On the contrary, it has often been held to be the duty of the husband to visit his absent wife, and to endeavor by all proper means to effect a reconciliation. If he succeeds, and his wife, returns to her home and to her duties as his wife, undoubtedly her prior desertion *122will be interrupted, or regarded as condoned, and can not be added to a subsequent desertion for the purpose of completing the three years necessary to entitle her husband to a divorce. But if, in spite of his efforts, his wife persistently and unreasonably refuses to return, and continuously remains away from him for three consecutive years, we think her husband’s right to a divorce is complete, — that the mere fact that on one occasion he visited her, and for two or three nights occupied the same bed with her, does not interrupt the continuity of her desertion.

Case remanded for further hearing in the court below.