Plaintiff, Virginia Morrissey, was injured on December 7, 1991 while riding as a passenger in a car driven by her stepson, defendant, Timothy Morrissey. Virginia had raised Timothy from the time he was 3 1/2 years old, and he made his home with her. Timothy was not married. Both parties referred to Timothy as Virginia’s son and he is properly considered as a son for purposes of this case.
Virginia sued Timothy and the driver of the stopped car Timothy ran into, but she settled with the other driver before trial. The jury returned a verdict for the defen*717dant, Timothy. Virginia appeals, assigning as her single point the overruling of her objection to defense counsel’s comments on her counsel’s failure to call Timothy as a witness. We conclude that the comments do not constitute reversible error in context, and so affirm the judgment.
Prior to voir dire counsel for plaintiff advised the court that he intended to ask the “insurance question” and received approval of the procedure he suggested. During voir dire counsel for defendant told the jury that Timothy claimed that “he was not at fault ...” and reiterated this claim in his opening statement.
After plaintiff rested and usual motions were overruled, defendant rested without calling any witnesses. Prior to the commencement of argument plaintiffs counsel advised the court that he intended to comment on defense counsel’s failure to call Timothy to the stand. Defense counsel objected but the objection was overruled.
Plaintiffs counsel then argued as follows:
Now, what was the evidence? We called every witness that we could to come in and tell you what was going on out there.
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What did the defendant’s lawyer tell you? At least three times he told you in the beginning of the ease and during opening statement and on voir dire, that Tim says it wasn’t his fault_ But the Court tells you in Instruction No. 1 that what the lawyers say is not evidence.
Now, under the law, I want to tell you something. Tim didn’t take the stand. His lawyer didn’t put him on the stand to tell you what happened that night.... But under our law, you can make an inference, you can reasonably infer from the fact that the defendant’s lawyer did not put Tim on the stand, that had Tim been put on the stand, that what he would have said would have been adverse to his interests. Tim wants his mother to be compensated. The only person in this room that doesn’t want Virginia to be compensated is [defense counsel].
Defense counsel did not interrupt the argument with further objections. During defense counsel’s closing argument, he argued as follows:
Folks, I frankly believe that the plaintiff has failed to meet that burden of proof. And because the plaintiff has failed to meet that burden of proof of showing negligence on the part of Timothy Morrissey, I didn’t call him.
Now, what’s interesting about the argument that Mr. Wallis made a few minutes ago, he said, well, you can infer that maybe he would have gotten up here and said that he was at fault or something. Timothy Morrissey has been in this courtroom, as you have seen, every day of this trial. He’s the person, as his mother testified this morning, who brought her to the courtroom every day. Now, if Mr. Wallis—
This argument drew plaintiffs counsel’s attention, as the ensuing colloquy shows:
[PLAINTIFF’S COUNSEL]: Your Hon- or, that’s an improper argument. He’s a party defendant.
[DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Your Honor, it’s not an improper argument.
[PLAINTIFF’S COUNSEL]: Yes, it is, Your Honor. He is a party defendant. And that is very improper, because I don’t have to put the defendant on the stand so he can lead him. And that’s improper.
THE COURT: I’ll overrule the objection. You may continue.
Defense counsel continued as follows:
Ladies and gentlemen, the fact of the matter is that if Mr. Wallis thought that Timothy Morrissey was going to testify that he was at fault, then surely Mr. Wallis would have said — after he called one of the other many witnesses that he called in this trial, he would have called Mr. Morrissey and would have asked Timothy Morrissey, well, you are at fault, aren’t you?
[PLAINTIFF’S COUNSEL]: Same objection, Your Honor, and I move the Court to instruct the jury to disregard the argument.
THE COURT: I’ll overrule your objection.
[DEFENSE COUNSEL]: Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t think that you should *718raise any — or infer anything adverse because Timothy was not called in this case. I think that what you should do is infer rather that the plaintiff failed to meet the plaintiffs burden of proof.
Our courts usually afford counsel broad latitude in closing argument. Kelly by Kelly v. Jackson, 798 S.W.2d 699, 704 (Mo. banc 1990). When counsel for one side undertakes to comment on the failure of his opponent to call a witness, however, review has been stricter. Id. at 701. Courts are wary of phantom testimony introduced through argument rather than from the witness stand. The history is discussed in Judge Covington’s instructive opinion in Kelly which points out that reversible error may result if counsel comments on the absence of a witness equally available to both parties. Id. The earlier case of Hill v. Boles, 583 S.W.2d 141 (Mo. bane 1979) stresses factors to be weighed by the trial court in deciding whether to allow such comment.
The trial court followed controlling authority in holding that plaintiffs counsel had the right to comment on defense counsel’s failure to call defendant. Pasternak v. Mashak, 428 S.W.2d 565, 568 (Mo. banc 1967); see also Keith v. Burlington Northern Railroad Company, 889 S.W.2d 911, 919 (Mo.App.1994). Case law also freely allows comment on a party’s failure to call a close relative to the stand. Spica v. McDonald, 334 S.W.2d 365, 370 (Mo.1960); Beesley v. Howe, 478 S.W.2d 649, 653 (Mo.1972); Feese v. Anderson, 648 S.W.2d 638, 639 (Mo.App.1983).
Counsel advise us that they have found no case which is directly on point, in which each side could argue persuasively that the witness was peculiarly available to the other side, and our research into Missouri case law has yielded none.
The burden is on the appellant to persuade us of error. The trial court is given wide discretion in controlling argument of counsel and, absent clear abuse of such discretion, its ruling should control. Kelly, 798 S.W.2d at 704. The trial judge, in this case, could have determined that defense counsel’s closing argument was a proper response to arguments made by plaintiffs counsel. In commenting on defendant’s failure to testify, plaintiffs counsel said that he had called all the witnesses that he could. The jurors might be led to believe that plaintiffs counsel could not have called defendant as a witness, even though the right to do so is clearly established by § 491.030, RSMo 1994. Plaintiffs counsel also asserted that “Tim wants his mother to be compensated”, which seems to be a none-too-subtle reference to a party’s insurance coverage, which is generally improper. Hulsey v. Schulze, 713 S.W.2d 873, 875 (Mo.App.1986). Courts regularly allow retaliation when an argument is inappropriate or misleading. Hammer v. Waterhouse, 895 S.W.2d 95, 106-07 (Mo.App.1995).
The court, furthermore, could consider the relationship between plaintiff and defendant' and their presence in court together during the entire trial, essentially leaving it to the jury to determine Timothy’s accessibility. The court could also take into account the nature of defense counsel’s argument, in which he did not ask the jury to draw an inference favorable to his client, but simply suggested that it draw no inference from Timothy’s failure to testify. The trial court was entitled to observe the scene and to weigh the circumstances. We perceive no abuse of discretion.
The judgment is affirmed.
AHRENS, C.J., concurs. CRANDALL, J., dissents in separate opinion.