This is a suit instituted by the father of a female lunatic as her next friend, against the defendant, her husband, for a total divorce, on the ground of adultery, and the question is, whether a guardian or next friend can, of his own will, institute such a suit, and prosecute or abandon it at his pleasured?
Mrs. Worthy was at the institution of this suit a lunatic, and confined in the asylum near Milledgeville.
It does not appear that, after her affliction, at any time, she had a lucid interval; for if she had, and that being shown, and that during that interval she had directed suit for divorce to be brought, it should have been in her own name, without appearance by next friend. This suit is an indirect admission that she had no lucid interval, and for the purposes of this decision we will assume that the fact is so.
If a guardian or next friend has the power insisted upon, we desire to learn whence it is derived. It certainly is not given by express provision of law, nor can it legitimately be deduced from the personal custody of the ward, which imposes certain duties on the guardian which he must perform. We confess that, notwithstanding the very able argument of the counsel for the father of Mrs. Worthy, we are unable to regard the right to sue for a divorce in any other light than *47as strictly personal to the party aggrieved. It is solely under the control of the person injured by the infidelity of the other; it is at the volition of that party whether a suit shall be begun and prosecuted or not. (See 2 Kent Com., p. 100.)
This principle laid down by Chancellor Kent, if correct, is decisive of the case.
It is clear the wife gave no assent to the bringing of this suit; she is a confirmed lunatic, and from the first was incapable of volition. What though she should continue a confirmed lunatic, and the husband should continue by repeated adulteries to violate his marriage vow and duties ? — the marriage cannot be dissolved at the instance and will of father, brother, or friend, whose feelings and delicacy may have been outraged by the conduct of the husband ? Their will may not be her will; her will, intelligent will, only can be regarded by a Court, not theirs. It may be inconvenient and greatly to be deplored that such a state of things exist. Nor can it be remedied by law, without destroying the safe foundation on which the continuance of the marriage relation reposes — that of its being personal to the party aggrieved.
For the crime of adultery with wdiich the husband is charged, the law has provided punishment, and the father or friend may prosecute at their will — but whether, after gross and repeated iufidelitics, the wife will continue to regard him as her husband, and live with him as his wife, is for her decision only. Death only can dissolve the marriage relation without her consent, and no divorce can or ought to be had in this or any case but through the agency and will of the injured wife.
Let the judgment be reversed, on the ground that the suit should have been dismissed, as it was improperly brought by a prochein ami.