Vernon v. Vernon

Opinion by

Orlady, P. J.,

The libelant and respondent were married in 1884, and lived together as husband and wife until August, 1913, when the wife removed from their domicile and has continuously lived apart from her husband. The charge in this libel is wilful and malicious desertion without reasonable cause. An issue was framed and on the trial a special question was submitted to the jury, viz: “Did the respondent wilfully and maliciously and without reasonable cause, desert the libelant and absent herself from their habitation on or about August 4,1913, and persist in such desertion from thence hitherto? If she did desert him without reasonable cause you will answer yes, if she did desert him but had reasonable cause to desert him, you will answer no.” The verdict was for the libelant, and the respondent in this appeal urges that the court erred in excluding certain testimony, and in inadequately presenting the defense. The first assignment of error is to the exclusion, under objection, of the question, “Would you have been willing to talk over with your husband the question of living together again if he had not been drunk *93when he called to see you ?” And further, “Are you willing to go back and live with him again if he will support you and ceasing illtreating you?” And again, “Would you or would you not have been willing, after August 4,1913, at any time to go back and live with him, if he made an offer to you that was in good faith and made it when sober and offered to stop illtreating you?” The libelant was prevented from answering these very important questions, and it is to be reasonably inferred that she would have answered them in the affirmative, which would naturally have had great weight with the jury in justifying her living apart from her husband.

It is not possible to reconcile the conduct of the husband toward the wife, as shown by her testimony, which in considerable measure is assented to by him, with his marital duties.

A brief excerpt from her testimony illustrates his conduct toward her: “Q. Aside from the question of lack of support, what was your husband’s conduct towards you during that time ? A. He cursed me every time he looked at me. Q. What was your own condition of health, especially in 1913, just before this alleged desertion? A. At the time my son was sick I had blood poisoning. I was in bed seven weeks. The doctor thought I wouldn’t get well. Q. How did your husband treat you at that time? A. He would come and peep his head in the door and go out again, and he didn’t care whether I had anything to eat or not. Q. You stated that he cursed you every time he looked at you. Give the court and jury the language he would use on those occasions. A. It wasn’t very nice. Q. Just tell us. I know it isn’t very nice, but we have to hear those things. A. ‘Oh, God damn your rotten stinking heart to hell,’ and called me a bitch and all those sort of things. Q. Did that conduct continue? A. Yes. Q. Did it continue after the death of your daughter or did it stop at that time? A. No, after that too. Q. What was his attitude at the table with regard to his meals? A. Cursing what he ate and nothing suited *94him. Q. What kind of curses would he use about the food? A. Whatever he would have, it would be, ‘God damn this, and God damn that,’ and ‘Jesus Christ.’ Q. You say that after your daughter’s death he didn’t give anything toward keeping up the table? A. No. Q. What happened between you and Mr. Vernon in regard to his course of conduct? A. When he got drunk he would tear the rugs up off the floor and throw his bed out of the window and curse so terrible that I could hardly stay in the house. He came home during my daughter’s sickness and fell drunk at the door and had to be taken in — at the time she was dying. Q. It was testified yesterday by your husband that he came to see you on two occasions, in Chester. Do you remember those visits? A. Yes, he was there, but he was drunk both times, and I was afraid to see him. Q. He said that he had a conversation with you in Media, at the Court, in which you said that you would never live with him again.' Did he ever make any efforts to see you besides these two times? A. No, sir. Q. Has he contributed anything to your support since that time, excepting under the Court order? A. No, sir.”

The effect to be given this and the other testimony was explained by the trial judge as follows: “When you consider the circumstances of people, some men who are perfectly honorable and decent and well behaved and good citizens, sometimes, as a matter of habit and without any real malice or bad feeling, use strong language and profane language. I knew of a distinguished man in Philadelphia, who used it constantly, without one thought of bad feeling. He used such language when he was in the presence of his best friends, and when he was full of the milk of human kindness, but it was a habit. You know, with reference to drinking, that some women think a man is drunk if he has had a drink; some people think a man is drunk if they can smell liquor on him. Some men, of course, are not drunk until they have an awful lot of liquor in them. The drunkenness is only a part of it. *95The question of cursing comes in. Is Mrs. Vernon the kind of a woman who is going to be rendered unhappy and so unhappy that her life is intolerable and burdensome if she hears some cursing? That is for you.

It is apparent from reading the charge of the learned trial judge that he had clearly defined views as to the merit of the defense, and unmistakably presented them to the jury in such a way as to tend to influence their findings in favor of the libelant. The charge is clearly open to the objection that its tendency was to belittle and prejudice the defense, and that in expression it was not an unprejudiced presentation of the case. If, in the judgment of the trial judge the testimony was not sufficient to sustain a verdict, it was his right and it may have been his duty to have ended the trial by a peremptory instruction. The learned trial judge and every lawyer knows how unfavorable may be the impression made upon jurors who must deliberate and form conclusions within a very few hours, by prominently presenting as the last word to them only one side of a disputed question, — and this too by a judge eminent because of his judicial integrity and ability. Under such circumstances the probability is they will assume there is but one side to the case, and that the one to which the court has called their attention specially and at length.

The well established and frequently expressed rule is clearly stated in Siracusa v. The Miller Construction Co., 43 Pa. Superior Ct. 466, “When there is sufficient evidence upon a given point to go to the jury, it is the duty of the judge to submit it calmly and impartially. And if the expression of an opinion upon such evidence becomes a matter of duty under the circumstances of the particular case, great care should be exercised that such expression should be so given as not to mislead, and especially that it should not be one-sided. The evidence, if stated at all, should be stated accurately, as well that which makes in favor of a party as that which makes against him; deduction and theories, not warranted by *96the evidence, should be studiously avoided; they can hardly fail to mislead the jury and work injustice.” While the error is manifest, it was, in our judgment, clearly unintentional. This did not change the effect it was likely to produce on the minds of the average jury.

The first, second, third, sixth and seventh assignments of error are sustained. The judgment is reversed and a venire facias de novo awarded.