Robbins v. Robbins

Field, J.

The justice who heard the case found as a fact that the conduct of the libellant, described in the report, constituted a scheme to detect the libellee, if she was guilty, but that there was no corrupt intent that adultery should be committed, or any assent to or connivance at it, unless the conduct of the libellant amounted to connivance as matter of law, which he ruled it did not. It is not found by whom the man who lodged in the house was invited to lodge there, or that he was of bad reputation, or was introduced by the husband to the wife, or that lodging there under the circumstances made him a member of the family, or what the conduct of the wife with him was which excited the suspicions of the husband; and it is impossible to hold that, on the facts found, it was so far the duty of the husband to expel the lodger, that, by not doing this, he must be held, as matter of law, to have connived at the adultery.

This court has assumed that the Legislature, in conferring upon it jurisdiction to grant divorces from the bond of matrimony, although the statutes make no provision respecting connivance, collusion, condonation, or recrimination, intended to *530adopt the general principles which had governed the ecclesiastical courts of England in granting divorces from bed and board, so far as these principles are applicable, and are found to be reasonable. Although the procedure may be “ according to the course of proceeding in ecclesiastical courts,” Pub. Sts. c. 146, § 33, yet it is not clear that the decisions of those courts upon questions of substantive law are of the same weight here as are the decisions of the English courts of law and chancery. One reason is, that the ecclesiastical courts proceeded according to the canon law, as allowed and adopted in England, but the canon law was never adopted by the colonists of Massachusetts; it was not suited to their opinions or condition. Marriage and divorce here have always been regulated wholly by statute. Commonwealth v. Munson, 127 Mass. 459. Sparhawk v. Sparhawk, 116 Mass. 315.

By the St. of 20 & 21 Viet. c. 85, a court for divorce and matrimonial causes was established in England, and jurisdiction given it to decree a dissolution of marriage; and it was expressly provided that, if the court should find that the petitioner had, during the marriage, been accessory to, or conniving at, the adultery, or had condoned the adultery complained of, or that the petition was presented or prosecuted in collusion with either of the respondents, the petition should be dismissed. § 30. By § 31, it was also provided that, if the court found that the case of the petitioner was proved, and did not find either connivance, collusion, or condonation, the court should not be bound to pronounce a decree, if it should find certain other facts concerning the libellant, of which one was “ such wilful neglect or misconduct as has conduced to the adultery.” It is obvious that decis ions under this statute may turn upon its provisions, and not upon general principles applicable to the law of divorce. It was, partially at least, upon the construction of this statute that Gipps v. Gipps, 11 H. L. Cas. 1, was decided.

It is not easy to reconcile all the decisions of the ecclesiastical courts upon connivance; the law and facts are not always separated ; and those courts have considered questions of morals somewhat more freely than we, under our statutes, feel at liberty to do. Many of the cases are collected in Phillips v. Phillips, 1 Rob. Eccl. 144; 3 Notes of Cases, 444; 4 Notes of Cases, 523; 5 Notes of Cases, 435; and it is there held that a corrupt *531intention is necessary to constitute connivance. The reasonable foundation of the rule, that connivance prevents the libellant from maintaining his libel for adultery, is that he has consented to the adultery, although it may be by a consent unexpressed and unknown to the libellee. This consent must necessarily often be inferred from circumstances, but the fact must be found that the libellant either desired and intended, or at least was willing, that the libellee should commit adultery, before the libellant can be said to have connived at it. There is a manifest distinction between the desire and intent of a husband that his wife, whom he believes to be chaste, should commit adultery, and his desire and intent to obtain evidence against his wife, whom he believes already to have committed adultery, and to persist in her adulterous practices whenever she has opportunity.

It was argued that it was the duty of the husband to protect his wife, and to control her conduct if it excited suspicions; and undoubtedly husband and wife ought mutually to aid each other in doing right, and to guard each other from doing wrong. But the legal duty of the husband to control the conduct of his wife cannot be greater than his legal right; and, by modern law and usage, the right of a husband to control the conduct of his wife has largely, if not wholly, disappeared. A husband cannot imprison his wife in order to protect her against seduction, nor is he compelled always to attend her, or to remain at home with. her. A chaste husband ought, if he desires it, to have a wife who will remain chaste when exposed to the temptations which are incident to the ordinary conditions of modern social-life; and, if she commits adultery against his wishes, and without his procurement, he ought to be permitted to obtain evidence of it.

Morrison v. Morrison, 136 Mass. 310, was decided upon the ground that the justice who heard the cause found, as a fact, that the husband, from the time that his suspicions were first excited, was in his mind willing that his wife should commit adultery, provided that he could thereby obtain a divorce, and that this finding, together with the evidence of his conduct towards his wife and suspected paramour, was sufficient to warrant the finding of connivance. The only cases there cited are those which hold that a corrupt intent is necessary to constitute conmvance.

Decree affirmed.