Foss v. Hartwell

Lathrop, J.

The facts appear to be as follows. The defendant obtained a divorce from his wife in 1889, on the ground of her desertion. The custody of the son was awarded to neither -of the parties, and neither asked for it. Both parties- married again, the woman becoming the wife of the plaintiff. The boy, at the time of the divorce, was staying with his grandmother. Subsequently, in 1889, he went to live with his father, and was with him about two years, and attended school. On his way home from school, in 1891, he was met by his mother, who took him to the home of the plaintiff. The plaintiff’s wife wrote to the defendant’s wife a letter, stating that she had taken the boy home with her, and requesting that his trunk be sent to him. Some days afterwards the defendant, who had been away from home, returned, and it was arranged that an interview should take place between him and his son. The defendant, at this interview, asked his son what he intended to do. The boy *67answered, “ I come to see you about going away to school.” The defendant said, “ Well, the schools of Lawrence were good enough for me, and must be good enough for you.” The boy said, “ All right.” The defendant then asked him with whom he preferred to live, his mother or himself, and the boy said that, if he was not going to be sent away to school, he preferred to live with his mother. The defendant replied, “ Very well, I will send your things to-morrow.” On the following day the trunk and personal effects of the boy were sent to him at the plaintiff’s house. The boy at this time was thirteen years old. From that time until this action was brought, neither the plaintiff nor his wife made any demand upon the defendant for the support of the boy, or had any communication with him upon the subject.

There was no express contract on the part of the defendant to pay the plaintiff for the support of his child; and we are of opinion that the jury would not have been warranted in finding that there was any implied contract. While the boy was living with his father, and was supported by him, his mother saw fit surreptitiously to take him to her home, and there he continued to live down to the time this action was brought. The boy was given the choice with whom lie would live, and he selected his mother. The most that can be said in favor of the plaintiff is that the father did not dissent from this arrangement. Under some circumstances, where a man and wife are living apart, it may be that the man may be liable for the wife’s support, and for his child’s support. This is undoubtedly true where the wife leaves for a justifiable cause, and takes her infant child with her. Reynolds v. Sweetser, 15 Gray, 78. Bazeley v. Forder, L. R. 3 Q. B. 559. But he is not so liable where she leaves without justifiable cause. Baldwin v. Foster, 138 Mass. 449. Nor is he liable when the custody of the child is given to the wife by a decree of court. Brow v. Brightman, 136 Mass. 187.

We have no occasion to consider whether or not, at common law, a father is bound to support his minor child, or whether the obligation is merely a moral one. If there is a legal obligation, it must rest upon the ground that he is entitled to the custody, the society, and the services of the child. He must also have the right to determine where his child shall live. If a son *68chooses to leave voluntarily his father’s house and live elsewhere, his father is not responsible for his support. Angel v. McLellan, 16 Mass. 28. So, if a child is induced by another to leave his father, without any necessity for so doing, the person thus influencing him to leave would, in case he should furnish supplies, have no cause of action against the father. Dodge v. Adams, 19 Pick. 429, 432.

There is nothing in the case before us to show any abandonment of the child by the father. It is simply the case of a child taken away from his father, without right, by the mother, and then voluntarily electing, when the choice was given him, to stay with his mother in her new home. If the plaintiff chose to receive him, he had no right, without communicating with the defendant, to look to the father for the boy’s support.

Verdict to stand.