This is a petition for separate support under R. L. c. 153, § 33, alleging “ cruel and abusive treatment,” that the respondent has deserted the petitioner and refused to supportf *39her. In the Probate Court it was decided that the allegations of the petitioner were true, that she was living apart from her husband for justifiable cause; he was ordered to pay her $50 forthwith, and the sum of $40 each month until the further order of the court. The respondent appealed. In the Superior Court the case was sent to a referee to hear the parties and report his findings, together with such questions of law as either party might request, his findings of fact to be final.
The referee found that the petitioner and the respondent were married in 1894 and in 1910 moved to Sheffield in this Commonwealth; that in 1912 the respondent, after visiting a woman to whom he had formerly been engaged, told his wife that this woman was “his ideal” and “that he wished to try the experiment of living with her;” that this conversation unnerved the petitioner and from that time her health was not good; that shortly after-wards the petitioner found in her husband’s desk copies of letters he had written to this woman (excerpts from which are printed in a footnote *), and although it was found there was nothing incrim*40mating in the letters and no evidence of infidelity, the discovery of them caused the wife to become more nervous and severely impaired her health.
In May, 1916, Turner went to Northfield, Connecticut. About this time Mrs. Turner found among his effects two pictures,— one a water color and the other a pencil sketch, — made by him, v representing the nude figure of the woman to whom he had been engaged; and so drawn, the referee finds, that nothing is left to the imagination. These pictures were placed where Mrs. Turner was almost certain to see them. This was done to alienate her affections and interest and was a part of a scheme'to bring about a separation which he was willing should take place. While the charge of desertion was not supported, it was found that the husband’s failure to write his wife after his removal to Northfield, to provide for her support, or to call on her when he visited Sheffield, “together with all the facts of this case,” indicated an intention to influence her to separate from him. The referee makes no specific finding of cruel and abusive treatment, but he does find the petitioner is living apart from her husband for justifiable cause. There is no finding that the wife condoned the husband’s conduct, but in view of the fact that it was found she was living apart from him for justifiable cause, we must infer that she did not.
We are not called upon to decide whether the words and acts of the husband were sufficient to sustain a libel for divorce for cruel and abusive treatment. See, in this connection, Armstrong v. Armstrong, 229 Mass. 592. Misconduct of the husband, not amounting to cruel and abusive treatment which would entitle the wife to a divorce, might justify her in living apart from him ■ and requiring him to contribute to her support. Lyster v. Lyster, 111 Mass. 327. Watts v. Watts, 160 Mass. 464, 467, 468.
While no physical violence was inflicted on the petitioner and the respondent did not exhibit to her the pictures or the copies of the letters, after he had informed her of his affection for this woman and his desire to live with her, he placed the letters and *41pictures where his wife would find them. He did this knowing she was in poor health and understanding her nervous condition; and he did it for the purpose of still further alienating her affections in order to bring about the separation he desired. As was said in Coe v. Hill, 201 Mass. 15, at page 21, “marriage is a civil institution, or status, in which, because the foundations of the family and the domestic relations rest upon it, the Commonwealth has a deep interest to see that its integrity is not put in jeopardy, but maintained. ” A separation is not to be decreed unless there is a substantial reason therefor, namely, where a marital wrong has been committed; and the disappointments of matrimony are not to be made an excuse for husband and wife living apart. But when it is the purpose of the husband to bring about a separation from his wife, and his acts are inspired by the malicious motive of alienating her affections and severing the marriage tie in order that he may live with another woman, and it is to be expected that pain and sorrow will ensue, such misconduct directed toward the wife and with such an end in view, may be found to justify her in living separate and apart from her husband. The pictures were not placed among his effects, and the other acts were not committed, merely to gratify his own lascivious desires; they were intended to injure his wife. The referee has found that all these acts were directed by Turner toward his wife; and that their purpose was to alienate her interest, destroy her affection, and force her to separate from him. This was such a malicious motive that, if shown, justifiable cause for separation could be found. We discover no error of law in the referee’s rulings.
The petition is dated November 8, 1916. The respondent contends that the domicil of the parties was in the State of Connecticut on that date. The referee finds that the respondent went to Northfield, Connecticut, in May, 1916, but voted in Sheffield November 7, 1916. Even if the respondent’s domicil were in Connecticut, the conversation and acts relied on to justify the wife in living apart from her husband occurred while he was domiciled in this Commonwealth. Under such circumstances the domicil of the wife does not follow that of the husband, and the Probate Court had jurisdiction of the case. Shaw v. Shaw, 98 Mass. 158. Blackinton v. Blackinton, 141 Mass. 432. Perkins v. Perkins, 225 Mass. 82, 85.
*42The decree of the Superior Court recited that the case came on to be heard upon the petitioner’s motion to confirm the referee’s report; that the appeal from the decree of the Probate Court should be dismissed and said decree affirmed. The decree should be modified by confirming the referee’s report and by striking out the words “the respondent’s appeal from the decree of the Probate Court be dismissed;” and so modified, it is affirmed.
So ordered.
“Because I do not yet know you by the new name or by any name and until I do you shall be for me the ideal I lost so long ago and which I think you realize my present need for. If I am not much mistaken an ideal is as necessary for you as it is to me, and while I may be as far as ever from becoming that ideal I can at least aim that way. I am sure also that you have not yet met your ideal and very likely you have in a measure given up the hope of doing so. If I can inspire you with that hope as you have so quickly inspired me, we shall not have met again in vain. Or we shall not have met again in vain or only for the passing of a few pleasant hours, the memory of which I have both left with you and carry away.
“I am sure of this only, that we speak a common language, that you plainly show me a feeling of kindness, of sympathy, and a desire to help me, and I do not believe you were actuated by any other motive. For the present this is enough and the consequences may take care of themselves. The admission that I had spent four or five days under your roof being the powder train and her questions the lighted match. I spared her all I could but admitted nothing necessary to make the matter plain. We have had a continuous session since Sunday morning and she has passed through the worst stages.
“It has caused her a severe struggle which has not hurt her in the least though she does not realize it naturally. Be a man, Yia, and help me to teach her this lesson that I believe you and I have both learned — to be charitable to the faults of others, to see the good in them, and make the most of it. It is not for you to feel the slightest reproach for any of this whatever happens.
*40“I am enclosing a couple of addressed envelopes, but as matters now stand you need not consider them necessary because the bit is in my teeth and I am in that absolutely reckless and abandoned condition" that caused John Tracy to drink coffee strong at night whether my heart goes or not. This is an acid test for May, for you and for me.”