(dissenting). The court’s reversal of the defendant’s conviction of murder in the first degree on the theory of deliberate premeditation is premised on the finding that the trial judge made three errors in his final instructions to the jury, none of which was objected to at trial, that created a substantial likelihood of a miscarriage of justice. I respectfully dissent. Two of the purported errors in instruction were not errors at all. The third, while error, when appraised realistically in view of the totality of the instructions, the circumstances of this case, and the overwhelming evidence of guilt, does not create a substantial likelihood of a miscarriage of justice.
1. The first purported error. The court finds that the following instruction was error:
“[E]ven if a person is entitled to use force in self-defense, he may not use excessive force in defending himself. A person may use only such force in self-defense as appears reasonably necessary to prevent the initiation, a continuation, or the recurrence of an attack. The law does not permit retaliation, and if a person’s conduct is not privileged *780when greater force or harsher means are used than reasonably appear to be necessary, then that person is not entitled to a defense of self-defense.”
The court declares that this passage was error because it “effectively informed the jury that, if a defendant otherwise entitled to defend himself uses excessive force, he loses the defense of self-defense altogether. The correct rule is that a defendant who uses excessive force in self-defense is entitled to a verdict of manslaughter.” Ante at 774. In so finding, the court takes this instruction out of context, and fails to recognize that the judge declared that this instruction defined the excuse or justification of self-defense (commonly called the defense of self-defense), which he did correctly, and did not define the mitigating factor of excessive use of force in self-defense. See Commonwealth v. Richardson, 429 Mass. 182, 185 (1999), quoting Commonwealth v. Raymond, 424 Mass. 382, 386 (1997) (we must “look to the charge as a whole to determine whether it fairly instructs the jury”).
The defense of self-defense is related to, but separate and distinct from, the mitigating factor of excessive use of force in self-defense. See Commonwealth v. Williams, 450 Mass. 879, 885 n.2 (2008); Commonwealth v. Pring-Wilson, 448 Mass. 718, 733 & n.15 (2007). A defendant who used a deadly weapon is entitled to an instruction on the defense of self-defense only if there is “evidence warranting at least a reasonable doubt that the defendant (1) had reasonable ground to believe and actually did believe that he was in imminent danger of death or serious bodily harm, from which he could save himself only by using deadly force, (2) had availed himself of all proper means to avoid physical combat before resorting to the use of deadly force, and (3) used no more force than was reasonably necessary in all the circumstances of the case.” Commonwealth v. Burbank, 388 Mass. 789, 794 (1983), quoting Commonwealth v. Harrington, 379 Mass. 446, 450 (1980). Unless there is evidence supporting all three of these elements of self-defense, the defendant is not entitled to a self-defense instruction. If there is evidence supporting each element, the Commonwealth bears the burden of proving beyond a reasonable doubt the negation of at least one of these elements, that is, it must prove “at least one of the *781following propositions beyond a reasonable doubt: (1) the defendant did not have a reasonable ground to believe, and did not believe, that he was in imminent danger of death or serious bodily harm, from which he could save himself only by using deadly force; or (2) the defendant had not availed himself of all proper means to avoid physical combat before resorting to the use of deadly force; or (3) the defendant used more force than was reasonably necessary in all the circumstances of the case.” Commonwealth v. Glacken, 451 Mass. 163, 167 (2008). See Commonwealth v. Souza, 428 Mass. 478, 486 (1998), quoting Commonwealth v. Torres, 420 Mass. 479, 492 (1995). If the Commonwealth proves any of these propositions beyond a reasonable doubt, the defendant’s use of deadly force was not excused or justified by self-defense, and the defendant may be convicted based on his use of deadly force.
However, in a homicide case, if the Commonwealth fails to prove the first or second proposition, but does prove the third, that is, does prove beyond a reasonable doubt that in his exercise of self-defense the defendant used excessive force, then the defense of self-defense fails, but the mitigating factor of use of excessive force in self-defense survives, and the jury would be warranted only to return a verdict of voluntary manslaughter, not of murder. Commonwealth v. Glacken, supra. See Commonwealth v. Little, 431 Mass. 782, 787 (2000). Therefore, the mitigating factor of excessive use of force in self-defense justifies a conviction of voluntary manslaughter only when there is evidence sufficient to raise a reasonable doubt that the defendant (1) had reasonable ground to believe and actually did believe that he was in imminent danger of death or serious bodily harm, from which he could save himself only by using deadly force, and (2) had availed himself of all proper means to avoid physical combat before resorting to the use of deadly force. In other words, the mitigating factor of excessive use of force in self-defense warrants a manslaughter conviction only when there is a reasonable doubt whether the defendant was entitled to use some force in self-defense.1
Here, the judge discussed the defense of self-defense in *782discussing the first required element of murder in the first degree (that the defendant committed an unlawful killing), telling the jury that an unlawful killing is a killing done without justification or excuse, and that a killing may be justified or excused if done in self-defense. In doing so, he followed our Model Jury Instructions on Homicide, which suggest that the jury be instructed on the defense of self-defense in discussing the first element of an unlawful killing. See Model Jury Instructions on Homicide 8 (1999); Commonwealth v. Williams, supra at 883 (judge’s instructions first discussing self-defense “in defining the first element of murder in the first degree, an unlawful killing,” were based on Model Jury Instructions on Homicide). 2
In discussing the justification or excuse of self-defense, the judge correctly instructed the jury about the defendant’s obligation to avail himself of all proper means to avoid physical combat before resorting to the use of force, telling them:
“[T]he right of self-defense is not available to a person unless and until he has availed himself of all proper means to avoid physical . . . combat. The right of self-defense arises from necessity and ends when the necessity ends. It exists only concurrently with the danger. All means of *783avoiding physical combat must be exhausted, including the use of any avenue of escape . . . ,”3
The judge also correctly instructed that the defendant loses the excuse of self-defense if he uses excessive force, saying:
“[Ejven if a person is entitled to use force in self-defense, he may not use excessive force in defending himself. A person may use only such force in self-defense as appears reasonably necessary to prevent the initiation, the continuation, or the recurrence of an attack. The law does not permit retaliation, and a person’s conduct is not privileged when greater force or harsher means are used than reasonably appear to be or are in fact necessary. That is, even if ... the right of self-defense is available to a person, and even if a person is entitled to use force in self-defense, if excessive force is used and death results, then the person using such excessive force has committed an unlawful killing.”
The only error the judge made in instructing as to the defense of self-defense favored the defendant. The judge gave the more generous self-defense instruction appropriate for nondeadly force, declaring that “[t]he right of self-defense is available to a person when he is or reasonably believes that he is about to be physically assaulted by the victim.” As noted earlier, the judge should have limited the right of self-defense in this case to a person who had reasonable ground to believe and actually did believe that he was in imminent danger of death or serious bodily harm, from which he could save himself only by using deadly force. See Commonwealth v. Glacken, 451 Mass. 163, 167 (2008).
Consequently, the judge did not err in instructing the jury as to the defense of self-defense except to provide the jury with the more generous instruction appropriate to the use of non-deadly force in self-defense. The court’s finding of error apparently suggests that the judge, after discussing the defense of *784self-defense in the context of discussing whether the Commonwealth has proved the first required element of murder in the first degree (that the defendant committed an unlawful killing), must immediately discuss the mitigating factors that could lead to a conviction of manslaughter before moving to the second required element of malice or the third required element of deliberate premeditation. This is contrary to the sequence of instruction in our own Model Jury Instructions on Homicide.
The judge, in keeping with the sequence of instruction in our Model Jury Instructions on Homicide, began his instructions to the jury by explaining that he would first discuss murder in the first degree, then murder in the second degree, and then manslaughter, describing manslaughter as “a lesser included offense within the offense of murder.” In discussing the law of murder in the first and second degree, he explained that, for the jury to find the defendant guilty of either of these crimes, the Commonwealth needed to prove each of the required elements beyond a reasonable doubt, including the required element of malice. When he began to discuss manslaughter, he explained that, while murder (either in the first degree or second degree) requires proof of malice, manslaughter does not. He told the jury that “the crime of manslaughter involves certain mitigating circumstances which I will outline to you” that, when found, “operate to negate the element of malice.” After again telling the jury that, “if the Commonwealth fails to prove malice, then you must find this defendant not guilty of either first degree murder or second degree murder,” he said, “If such mitigating circumstances are present, the law provides that even though the defendant has committed an unlawful killing, the crime is that of manslaughter and not of murder.” He then described the mitigating factors of heat of passion on reasonable provocation, heat of passion induced by sudden combat, and the use of excessive force in self-defense.
Because the judge’s instructions as to the defense of self-defense were furnished in discussing the required element of an unlawful killing for murder in the first and second degree, not in discussing the mitigating factors that may lead to a verdict of manslaughter, a reasonable jury would have understood that he was describing the defense of self-defense, not the mitigating *785factor of excessive use of force in self-defense. As an instruction regarding the defense of self-defense, the only error the judge committed favored the defendant.
2. The second purported error. The court concludes that the judge also erred when he stated that, “if the defendant killed the victim by virtue of the use of excessive force in self-defense, the defendant may be found guilty of the crime of manslaughter” (emphasis added). Ante at 775-776. The court declares that the “use of the word ‘may’ erroneously altered what was an otherwise accurate instruction.” Id. at 776. The court added, “If the defendant killed the victim by the use of excessive force in self-defense, the defendant must be found guilty of manslaughter; the jury cannot be given the option of considering that a murder has been committed” (emphasis added). Id. at 776.
Our Model Jury Instructions on Homicide do not compel a jury to convict of manslaughter in these circumstances by using the word “will” or “shall.” Instead, our instructions call for the jury to be told in these circumstances that “you must not find the defendant guilty of murder” and “you would be justified in finding the defendant guilty of voluntary manslaughter” (emphasis added). Model Jury Instructions on Homicide 30.
The court also neglects to address the fact that, at trial, defense counsel objected to the judge’s direction to the jury that, if they find the necessary elements, they “will” find the defendant guilty. Trial counsel told the judge, “[I]t should be permissive and not mandatory. That should be ‘may’ as opposed to ‘shall.’ ” The judge then acted on this objection and told the jury that they “may, if [they] choose,” find the defendant guilty of murder in the first degree or murder in the second degree, and that he did not mean to compel them to make any finding on any issue. In view of this instruction, considered with the totality of the instructions, the jury could not reasonably have understood the judge’s use of the word “may” to mean that they could find the defendant guilty of murder in the first degree even if they found that the Commonwealth had failed to prove the absence of mitigating factors beyond a reasonable doubt. See Commonwealth v. Torres, 420 Mass. 479, 492 (1995). Rather, the jury would have understood the word “may” to mean that they were not compelled to find the defendant guilty even if they found that the Commonwealth *786had proved each of the required elements beyond a reasonable doubt, that is, that they retained the power of jury nullification. The defendant affirmatively sought this instruction and cannot justly claim on appeal to have been prejudiced by it.
3. The third error. The court is- correct that the judge did err in his manslaughter instruction when he discussed the mitigating factor of excessive use of force in self-defense. After correctly instructing about the mitigating factors of heat of passion induced by reasonable provocation or sudden combat, and correctly telling the jury that, “if the defendant killed the victim by virtue of the excessive force in self-defense, the defendant may be found guilty of the crime of manslaughter,” the judge told the jury:
“If you find that the victim initiated the assault such that the defendant in fact reasonably feared that he was in danger of being killed or of suffering grievous bodily harm at the hands of the victim, then the defendant had the initial right to use whatever means that were reasonably necessary to overcome the threatened harm. However, if the means used were unreasonable and clearly excessive in light of the existing circumstances or if the defendant himself becomes the attacker, then the defendant may be found guilty of murder” (emphasis added).
I agree that the emphasized sentence was error; if the jury found that the defendant used excessive force in self-defense, they should have found the defendant guilty of voluntary manslaughter, not murder. I disagree, however, with the court’s conclusion that there was a substantial likelihood of a miscarriage of justice arising from this error.
The only evidence that could possibly have supported a finding of reasonable doubt whether the defendant used excessive force in self-defense came from the defendant’s three differing versions of how the shooting occurred: (1) the version he told the New York City police department following his arrest; (2) the version he told his girl friend the night of the shooting, which she told the police, the grand jury, and the trial jury during her direct examination; and (3) the version the girl friend testified to on cross-examination at trial, in answer to leading questions posed by defense counsel.
*787As stated earlier, the mitigating factor of excessive use of force in self-defense may warrant a manslaughter conviction only if there is a reasonable doubt whether the defendant was entitled to use some force in self-defense. If the jury had credited the first version (the defendant grabbed the gun from the victim, pushed him into the bathtub, and started firing), the defendant would not be entitled to use any force in self-defense after he had grabbed the gun and pushed the defendant into the bathtub, because he then easily could have retreated from the house without engaging in any more violence. See Commonwealth v. Medina, 430 Mass. 800, 811 (2000). Moreover, if the jury had a reasonable doubt about this version of events, they would have found the defendant guilty of voluntary manslaughter notwithstanding the erroneous instruction, because the victim’s grabbing for the gun would have been sufficient to raise a reasonable doubt as to the mitigating factors of reasonable provocation and sudden combat, as to which the jury were correctly instructed.
If the jury had credited the defendant’s statement to his girl friend on the night of the shooting, as described in her direct examination (the defendant told her that he had been at the victim’s home, the victim had called him to the bathroom, they started arguing, and the argument reached the point that he shot the victim), the defendant would not have been entitled to any instruction as to any mitigating factor, because he told her simply that he shot the victim during an argument. “Mere words, no matter how insulting or abusive, standing alone do not constitute reasonable provocation.” Model Jury Instructions on Homicide 28. See Commonwealth v. Burgess, 450 Mass. 422, 438 (2008).
If the jury had a reasonable doubt as to the credibility of the defendant’s statement to his girl friend, as described by her through leading questions on cross-examination (the gunshots were fired during the defendant’s struggle with the victim for the gun), the jury would have found the defendant not guilty of any crime because the Commonwealth would not have met its burden of proving beyond a reasonable doubt that the killing was not excused by the defense of self-defense. Consequently, there is no scenario arising from the evidence at trial in which the judge’s error could have affected the jury’s verdict.4
*788Moreover, the physical evidence in this case overwhelmingly contradicted the defendant’s claim that he acted in self-defense. The defendant said the victim was on the toilet when he first confronted him, but the toilet seat was up, there was no urine or excrement in the toilet, and the bathtub faucet was running when the police arrived. The defendant did not tell anyone that he lifted the toilet seat, flushed the toilet, or turned on the bathtub faucet before he left, nor is it plausible that he did. The defendant said that the victim first grabbed the gun, and he took it from him, but there was no sign of a struggle, especially a life-or-death struggle, in a very small bathroom occupied by two large men; even the half-empty toilet paper roll on the shelf above the toilet and the liquid soap container on the sink were still standing when the police arrived. The defendant said that the victim fell into the bathtub during the struggle, but the victim was found lying on his back in the bathtub, with his knees bent and a bucket at his feet near the tub faucet, hardly the position one would expect based on any of the defendant’s versions. Two of the three bullets fired had passed through the shower curtain, which meant that the victim was on the other side of the shower curtain from the gun when at least two of the shots were fired. When considered in the context of the entire charge and the overwhelming weight of the evidence at trial, the judge’s erroneous instruction on the excessive use of force in self-defense did not create a substantial likelihood of a miscarriage of justice.5
*7894. Conclusion. If I thought there was any significant possibility that the judge’s lone error of instruction could have affected the jury’s verdict, I would join the court’s decision to vacate the conviction and order a new trial. Because I conclude there was no such significant possibility, I dissent.
The court confuses the right of self-defense, which provides a lawful excuse or justification for the use of deadly force, with the mitigating factor *782of excessive use of force in self-defense, which is an unlawful exercise of self-defense that serves only to mitigate, not excuse, the homicide. See Commonwealth v. Williams, 450 Mass. 879, 885 n.2 (2008); Commonwealth v. Pring-Wilson, 448 Mass. 718, 733 & n.15 (2007). Indeed, the court declares, “The jury cannot reach the question of excessive force in self-defense unless they decide that the defendant has exercised his right of self-defense in the first place.” Ante at 775. If the jury finds a reasonable doubt whether the defendant exercised his lawful right of self-defense, they must acquit the defendant. See Commonwealth v. Williams, supra. There is, however, no lawful right to use “more force than was reasonably necessary in all the circumstances of the case.” Commonwealth v. Glacken, 451 Mass. 163, 167 (2008). We permit a conviction of manslaughter based on the use of excessive force only when the jury find beyond a reasonable doubt that the defendant did not exercise his lawM right of self-defense but find that there is a reasonable doubt whether the defendant was entitled to use some force in self-defense, albeit less than he actually used.
The court declares, “The concept that the judge conveyed to the jury [in this instruction] was that excessive force negates self-defense altogether, a proposition that is incorrect.” Ante at 774. The use of excessive force in self-defense does negate the excuse or justification (i.e., the defense) of self-defense, which is what the judge, in keeping with our Model Jury Instructions on Homicide, was discussing in this instruction.
Although the shooting here occurred in a dwelling, the defendant was not the occupant of that dwelling, so the statutory abolition of the duty to retreat from one’s dwelling before using deadly force in self-defense did not apply. G. L. c. 278, § 8A.
The court correctly observes that the jury were entitled to “pick and *788choose among conflicting versions, accepting or rejecting all or portions of the testimony as they see fit.” Ante at 111. Yet, the court does not explain how the judge’s error could have affected the jury’s verdict under any variation of these conflicting versions that were supported by the evidence.
The court states that it is “not this court’s function” to discuss the weight of the evidence in determining whether an error in a jury instruction creates a substantial likelihood of a miscarriage of justice. Ante at 777. To the contrary, it is plainly appropriate to consider the weight of the evidence in making this determination. “In deciding, under G. L. c. 278, § 33E, whether an error in a jury instruction created a substantial likelihood of a miscarriage of justice, a new trial is called for unless we are substantially confident that, if the error had not been made, the jury verdict would have been the same.” Commonwealth v. Ruddock, 428 Mass. 288, 292 n.3 (1998). In determining whether “we are substantially confident that ... the jury verdict would have been the same” despite the erroneous instruction, we often need to consider the weight of the evidence and routinely have done so. See, e.g., Commonwealth v. Williams, 450 Mass. 879, 885 n.4 (2008) (omissions from model jury instructions did *789not create substantial likelihood of miscarriage of justice in view of “overwhelming evidence of excessive force presented at trial”); Commonwealth v. Oliveira, 445 Mass. 837, 845 (2006) (finding that erroneous instruction about malice did not present substantial likelihood of miscarriage of justice because “evidence that the defendant acted with malice is overwhelming”); Commonwealth v. Fuller, 421 Mass. 400, 412 (1995) (errors as to third prong malice instruction were “irrelevant” because “evidence supporting their finding of malice under the first prong is overwhelming”); Commonwealth v. Garcia, 379 Mass. 422, 442 (1980) (erroneous instruction on reasonable doubt in murder case harmless because “case involves overwhelming evidence of guilt”).