1. In England the law of marriage and divorce, in its administration, was committed to the ecclesiastical courts; and as we have no such courts in this country, §.nd never had, observes Mr. Bishop, “no tribunal in this country can take jurisdiction of this class of cases, without authority from a statute;” but, when a statute, has given the authority, the tribunal is to exercise it, according to the practice in the ecclesiastical courts, modified to harmonize with the.practice in our courts, and not opposed or repugnant to the constitution and statutes of the 'State.” — 1 Bishop on Marriage and Divorce, §§ 70, 71, 79. In most States, and in Alabama, staiutes have been enacted conferring jurisdiction of *553those subjects on tbe courts of chancery. — Code, §§ 1485 cl, seq.
The statutes are silent as to a cross-bill by a defendant asking for affirmative relief, in suits for divorce of alimony. This does not imply that under the general rules of practice of such courts, as in the ecclesiastical courts, such relief may not be sought and had.
In 7 Ency. of Pleading and Practice, 96, it is said: “In the ecclesiastical courts, the defendant might obtain any relief concerning the marriage relation, such as a separation, a restitution of conjugal rights, or a decree annulling the marriage, and this regardless of the relief prayed for in the petition. In the absence of any special statute [provision] in the statutes relating to divorce, and in those states where the provisions of the Code relating to counter-claims do not include á cross-demand for affirmative relief, the practice of the ecclesiastics courts may be followed, on the ground that such practice, in the absence of any other, has been adopted as a part of our common law.”
On the same subject, Mr. Bishop says: “The practice of bringing a cross-suit by defendant against the plaintiff, to aid the defense and obtain affirmative relief,, may be resorted to in divorce cases the same-as in any others. It is permissible equally whether the proceeding is by bill in equity, by libel corresponding to the ecclesiastical libel, or by statutory complaint.” — 2 Bish. on Marriage and Divorce, § 318; Dodd v. Dodd, 14 Oregon, 338; Wuest v. Wuest, 17 Nev. 217; Blakeley v. Blakeley, 89 Cal. 324.
Tn this State it is provided, that “A defendant may obtain relief against a party complainant or defendant for any cause connected with or growing out of a bill, by alleging in his answer, and as a part thereof, the facts upon winch such relief is prayed. The matters of fact thus alleged and put in issue must be considered in the nature of a cross-bill, and he. heard at the same time as the original bill.” — Code, § 720.
This is a suit, not for divorce by the wife, but for alimony out of the husband’s estate, on account of his de*554sertion of her, and. bis- failure to- provide for her. If it were for a divorce, it seems to be well settled, the husband might be allowed in his answer in the way of a cross-bill; or counter-claim, to demand and obtain the affirmative relief of divorce, when shown to be entitled thereto. We discover no distinction in principle, as to this right, when a bill competent to be filed under our divorce system is for alimony alone.- — Brindley v. Brindley, 121 Ala. 429. It would be unnecessary and vexatious to require the defendant, in such case, to bring a new suit.and go over the same matters, which could as well be brought forward in the existing suit. The rights of the parties could be adjusted in the one as well as in bringing another suit, thereby avoiding inconvenience and delay. Whatever can be done consistently, -with, the law to put an end to vexatious and irritating litigations ought to be done. Aside from this, howrever, a suit for alimony concerns directly, and is cognate to the marriage relation between the. parties. It touches matters in question in the original bill. “A cross-bill, ex vi termini, implies a bill bv defendant against the.plaintiff in the same suit, or against .other defendants in the same suit, or against both, touching the matters in question in the original bill. * * It is regarded as auxiliary to, or as a dependency upon the original suit, and its subject matter is that- of the original bill.” — C. L. Ins. Co. v. Webb, 54 Ala. 694; Wilkinson v. Roper, 74 Ala. 141. As a proper defense to the suit fqr alimony alone, the defendant set xip the adultery of the complainant, his wife, and this fact being alleged in the' answer, and being a fact upon proof of which defendant, was entitled to a divorce, it was competent for him to .malee his answer a cross-bill, and pray for affirmative relief. — Code, §§ 1496, 1498.
The. court committed no error in overruling the. demurrer to, and the motion to dismiss the cross-bill.
2.. . There was no error in..the introduction) .of the letter purporting to have been written by Charles Rushing to the complainant, attached to defendant’s cross-bill, as exhibit A., This was an original .document, shown, to be *555in the hand, writing of said Rushing, and received bi complainant. The evidence is wanting to show that the date of said letter was .suppressed, or that it bore any date, but the proof satisfactorily shows' it was written, on August 28th, 1899, before complainant’s marriage with the defendant, E. L. Bickley, — on the 14th of September of that year. Nor did the fact, that it was written to and received by her, before her marriage with defend^ ant, render it inadmissible. On a charge of illicit intercourse, after .marriage, evidence of acts not long anterior thereto, tending to show illicit relations between the accused and a third person, is admissible, in connection with evidence of similar acts, during the marriage, to prove the illicit intercourse charged. — Alsabrook v. The State, 52 Ala 24.
Letters B and C, copies of which are attached to the cross-bill, are claimed to have been written by complainant to her alleged paramour, Charles Rushing; the one, on the 21st and the other on the 27th January, 1900.
The ones attached thereto marked exhibits D., E. and F., dated, respectively, “Nashville, January 26, 2-9 and 2-16 (the 9th and 16th February) 1900,” are claimed to have been written by said Rushing to complainant.
As to letters B. and C., Clarence Bickley, a witness and kinsman of E. L. Bickley, testified, that he had seen the original of which the exhibit B. was a copy; that the original was found in his room, at the house of E. L. Bickley and wife, in a trank belonging to Mrs. Bickley ; that the letter was sealed and addressed to Charles Rushing, Nashville, Tenn., Box 62; that he unlocked the trank, his uncle, E. L. Bickley, being with him; that they unsealed the letter and next-day made a copy of it, when the letter was re-sealed and placed, back in the trunk; that he knew the hand, writing of Mrs. Bickley and the letter was in her hand writing; that the next day Mrs. Bickley handed him two. or three letters to mail, and among them was this letter, postage paid, and.he carried it to and deposited it in the post office; and after-wards, when he mailed .another letter for her.to said Rushing, she told him he was a young lawyer living, in *556Nashville. As to letter 0. he deposed, that the original of which the exhibit was a true copy, was handed to him by Mrs. Bicldey to be mailed, and he carried said letter to the office of E. L. Bickley, where they opened, read and made a copy of it; and the letter was in the hand writing of Mrs. Bickley, and after copying, he carried it to the post office and mailed it.
E. L. Bickley deposed to the same facts, and fully sustains Clarence as to the procurement of these two letters, of their being in the handwriting of complainant and as to the correct copies of the same attached as exhibits to the cross-bill.
As to letters D and E, said Clarence testified, as to the first, that he got the original out of Mrs. Bickley’s trunk the night after she received it, and carried it the next morning to E. L. Bickley’s office, and it was there read by each of them and copied; that it was in an envelope, Avhieh had been opened, addressed to Mrs. E. L. Bickley, Tuscumbia, Ala., and that this letter was in the same handwriting as exhibit A.; and to the second, — exhibit E., — he testified, that it was in the same handwriting as exhibit A.; was addressed as the original, D., was; that he received it from the postoffice, and carried it to E. L. Bickley’s office where they opened, read and made a copy of it, which is attached to the cross-bill. He testified substantially to the same thing as to exhibit E. What he said was: “I saw the original of which exhibit F. is a copy, in an envelope, post-marked, Nashville, Tenn. postage prepaid, addressed to Mrs. E. L. Bickley, Tuscumbia, Ala.; it was in the same handwriting as the original of exhibit A. I know she received it, because I delivered it to her.” On the cross he stated, that he carried this letter also to his uncle’s office where it was opened and read and a copy taken, after which it was re-sealed and delivered to complainant.
These statements of Clarence as to the originals of these letters, their reading and correct copying are also fully corroborated by said E. L. Bickley; his testimony in these respects being the same, in substance as that of said Clarence.
*557The witness, Rushing, also testified to his having received the letters referred to, purporting to have been written to him by Mrs. Bickley, and those written by him in reply to her, and that the copies attached to the cross-bill were correct copies. He also testified as to those received by him from her, that he burned them after he received them.
3. The complainant- moved to exclude all of said letters, because, in substance, the originals, if ever they existed, had not been procured or sufficiently accounted for to justify the introduction of secondary evidence touching their contents.
Mrs. Bickley, in her examination as a witness for herself, testified that she never wrote or received any of the letters attached as exhibits to the cross-bill. The ones she wrote to Rushing, she is not presumed to have in her possession, but she fully and distinctly disclaimed having written them; and, as for those alleged to have been written by him to her, she also denied ever having received them and declared her consequent inability to produce them, when called on.
The principle is fully recognized and admitted, that secondary evidence cannot be substituted for any writing the existence of which is disputed, and which is material either to the issues between the parties or to the credit of the witness, and is not merely a memorandum of some other fact. — 1 Greenleaf Ev., § 88. But this rule may be misapplied. As is observed by this court-, that while true, “that proof in writing is of a higher grade than mere oral testimony, and must in general be produced, if in existence, or its non-production will afford ground to presume that the party has some secret and sinister motive, and is conscious if the best- evidence were adduced, his object would be frustrated; yet, it is not always necessary that the written evidence by which a fact may be proved, should be produced. Its production will not be required, where the adversary has admitted the fact which is to be proved, for he is generally bound by his own admissions.” — Paysant v. Ware, 1 Ala. 170.
Again, the admission of a party against whom secón-*558dary evidence of the contents of a written instrument is offered to be given, that the instrument is lost, will be sufficient to let in the inferior proof. — Cooper v. Madden, 6 Ala. 431.
Here, the complainant on her oral examination, when requested to produce the létters, denied that'she had ever received any letters of the kind from said Rushing, and aJso denied that she had written those to him, copies of Svhicli were attached to the cross-bill. In her answer to the cross-bill, she had positively and indignantly denied haling written or received any of such letters, and denounced them as fabrications and forgeries. Under such conditions, it was unnecessary for the defendant to give her notice to produce these documents. It would have been useless to demand papers from her, in order to let in secondary evidence of their contents, when she had thus denied ever having had such papers.
4. It is urged that the copies of letters by complainant to Rushing, could not be shown by him, since he testified to having destroyed them, when received and read by him. Whether that rule obtains, when it appears that they were not destroyed in order to suppress them as evidence, and from no evil intentions, we need not decide. Without his evidence, as to these letters, the other proof in the case may be deemed sufficient to show, that the copies produced were correct copies of originals which had been written by the parties to each other.
5. There is no certificate of the commissioner set out in the record, but we find a motion by complainant to suppress the deposition of Charles Rushing because, as alleged in the motion, there is no legal certificate of and to said disposition by the said commissioner. Its illegality is stated in the motion to consist in the fact that the commissioner did not certify, “that he is not of counsel or of kin to any one or either of the parties to the cause in which said deposition was taken,” but certifies “that he is not of counsel, or kin to either of the parties in said cause.” We can scarcely be expected to pass on the merits of this motion, without the certificate before *559us; but if the objection as stated were correct, it is merely technical and without merit.
(5. The testimony in the cause is very voluminous, and as between the parties, in irreconcilable and distressing conflict. To discuss it in its various bearings would extend this opinion to an extraordinary length, without satisfaction to the losing party. The learned chancellor in his opinion in the cause says: “After a careful consideration of the voluminous testimony on file in the cause, the court is of the opinion that the complainant in the cross-bill, Elbert L. Bickley, is entitled to relief; and that, complainant in the original bill is not entitled to any relief, except such provision for her maintenance as the court may in its discretion awarfl her upon the rendition of a decree of divorce on the cross-bill in favor of her husband, for her misconduct. It appears from the evidence that the husband was kind to the wife and was not at fault in his relations' with her. He provided well for her, seemed devoted to her, and tried in every reasonable way to make her happy and contented, until her want of love, for him and infidelity manifested itself so plainly that he could not afford to live with her longer without forfeiting his own self-respect, as well as the respect of the community in which they lived. The conduct of the complainant toward her husband was anything but praiseworthy. From the very beginning of their married life, or soon thereafter, she was inconsiderate and disrespectful in her bearing toward him, and pursued a course of conduct, both in public and private, calculated to vex, harass and humiliate him. She showed clearly by word and act, that she had no affection for her husband and preferred the society of other men.. She carried on an extended clandestine correspondence with one Charles Rushing, the tone and character of which shows that illicit intercourse was contemplated and designed, the purpose thereof being to make plans and opportunities for such criminal relations. It finally culminated in her committing, with said Rushing, the greatest crime against the married relation, to wit, adultery. It is proven positively by said Rushing’s testimony; and while there is *560some evidence tending to impeach or weaken the testimony of this witness, it is so1 thoroughly corrobrated by the letters, and copies of letters, written by her to Rushing, and by him to her, and by all the circumstances, the court is forced to the conclusion that his evidence is true.” The testimony has been here examined, and we see no good reasons for differing with the chancellor.
The foregoing cover the only assignments of error insisted on in argument of counsel. Finding no error in the decree, let it be affirmed.
Affirmed.