This action is for damages resulting to plaintiff by reason of personal injuries suffered by his wife resulting, as is alleged, from an unsafe, insufficient, and dangerous crossing constructed on a public highway across defendant’s track. The answer was a general denial. There was a judgment for plaintiff for the sum of eleven hundred dollars and defendant appeals.
It appears from the evidence that plaintiff and his wife were moving from the south part of this state and were traveling westward in two farm-wagons at the time *667of the injury. Plaintiff was driving" the wagon in advance and his wife was driving the other, following him ; that they approached the crossing from the east, he passing over; that she drove upon the eastern approach, but in passing over the track down the western approach her wagon turned over, rolled down the embankment inflicting painful, if not serious injuries upon her.
The objections to plaintiff’s first and second instructions are, that they did not submit the question of contributory negligence. Contributory negligence, as has been frequently held, is a matter of defence and must be pleaded. Donovan v. Railroad, 89 Mo. 147. It is true, as stated in Milburn v. Railroad, 86 Mo. 104, that though such negligence is not pleaded, yet if the plaintiff’s own evidence discloses a clear case of contributory negligence, he must fail in his action. The question then in this case is, does the evidence for plaintiff show contributory negligence on the part of Mrs. Brown. It is shown she was an ordinarily good and careful driver; that the team was gentle, and that she had driven it one hundred and sixty miles. The crossing and its surroundings and condition is described by the witnesses with particularity.
Thomas Wright testified as follows: “I live near the crossing in question. The railroad crosses the state road, known as the Haynesville and Plattsburg road. Before the railroad was built, the road was level and safe. The road crossed a sort of bottom before the railroad was built. I have known it for forty years. I cross it every Sunday. I lived there at the time of the accident. I was road overseer; and the road was in my district. In crossing from the east, one has to keep to the south side of the east approach to avoid a hole, which is on the north side of that approach. When the track is reached, unless you are very careful, the wheel will drop down off the plank, and not strike solid ground. The plank extends twenty inches south, beyond the south brink of the west approach. The east *668approach reaches the track in a curve, and a hole on the north side compels bearing south, and throws travel towards the south brink of the west approach. There is more danger of going off the west approach, because the south brink of that approach is from three to four feet north of the south line of the east approach. To reach the west approach safely, one would have to bear off to the north, after getting on to the railroad track with a long wagon, but not so much with a short one. I measured the height of the fill on the south side of the west approach with a plank, and found it about seven feet. I saw the roadmaster and asked him to fill up the hole on the south side of the west 'approach ; told him about two carloads of dirt thrown in there," so as to extend the west approach further south, would make the crossing safe. He did not do so. • The plank on the west rail extends two feet beyond the fill, making the west approach. If one pays attention before getting on the track, he can go over -without difficulty, but he must make a turn after getting on the railroad track. A long-coupled wagon has more trouble. I don’t know whether I notified the roadmaster before or after the accident. Think it was before, but am not sure. Having my recollection refreshed, by reference to my former testimony in this case, I am satisfied it was before the accident.”
On re-direct examination the witness said : “To be entirely safe in going over the crossing, it is necessary to make a turn some to the north after getting on the track, and drive the team beyond the plank on to the end of the ties, where they are not filled with dirt.”
Monroe Treason testified: “I live one and one-half miles from the crossing and knew it in 1883, and passed just after the accident. The east approach comes up to the track in a curve. The crossing is wide enough if it was not for the curve, and the fact that the approaches are not opposite each other, one is liable to pull off if he does not watch. The south brink of the west approach is about four or five feet north of the *669south line of the east approach. In coming up from the east one does not see the danger until he gets upon the railroad track, and if one is not acquainted with its condition he is liable to go off. Travel is thrown to the south on the west approach. The approach is wide enough and about seven or eight feet high, but the planks at the rails do not extend far enough north to give a safe landing on the west approach.”
Jesse A. Wright testified: “I have known the crossing for twenty years, and knew it in N ovember, 1883. Coming from the east side the approach curves to the track, then goes straight. A hole on the north side of the east approach compels one to pull in one direction, and when the track is reached he must pull the other way. One cannot see over the track when coming up the east approach. The curve in the east approach and the hole in the north side of it throws the wagon too far south.”
On re-direct examination, the witness said : “If a person continues straight west over from the east side it would not be safe. One can’t see all the way over. Must pull north to get over safely, One not familiar with the crossing is in danger of going over.”
William Mott testified: “I am familiar with the crossing in question. Have always known it. The east approach is in a curve. It is scant nine feet wide the way they had it fixed. One has to turn towards the left to avoid a hole on the north side of the east approach, which has the effect to leave the wagon near the south side. At the railroad track the fill is from seven to ten feet high. The approach on the east extends out eleven feet and on the west about fourteen feet. The planks on the track are pine and the south end was broken. The wagon wheel j umped off the rail about one foot down where the end of the plank is broken off. The sign-posts are west of the track, one south and the other north of the roadway. The sign extended over the road and was from twelve to sixteen feet long. A person cannot see the west approach from *670the east until on the railroad track. The sign-posts were about sixteen or eighteen feet from the track of the railroad. The surface of the west approach was not level, would call it oval. Started from the center of the traveled track toward the south.”
J. D. L. Sparks, testified: “ I know the crossing, and travel over it often. The road approached the railroad track in a curve from the east. The west approach is steep and narrow, and is further south than the east approach. Crossing from the east, one turns to the left. On reaching the railroad track of railroad the approach is in a curve. East approach is steep on the north side, and the west approach on the south side. Coming up, in a curve from the east, to avoid the steep place on the north side, with your team, the wagon is left near the south side. On reaching the track from the east, must turn north as far as team can go, in order to land safely on the west approach. Can’t see the west approach, from the east, till the track is reached. A person driving in a covered wagon would have his view obstructed. Coming up the east approach, if you follow the direction given by the planks at the rails, you don’t land on safe ground on the west approach.”
On re-direct examination the witness said: “To get on to the west approach, one must go diagonally over the plank. To one knowing the track, and the necessity of keeping the team to the north of the track, it is no trouble to cross. Plank at crossing is about twelve feet long. One could cross anywhere on the plank. The bushes on the south side of the west approach are boxelder, briar, hazel, etc.”
James E. Young testified : “I am acquainted with the crossing in question, have known it since 1867, and knew it in 1883. The public road crosses the railroad, at an angle from southeast to northwest. The approach is graded up several feet, and curves on each side of railroad track. On the west side is straight. On either side of the east approach were excavations. Don’t know that it interfered with travel on east *671approach. It would not interfere with safe landing on west approach. There is some danger in getting down west side, to a stranger. The danger arises from the fill on the west side, not extending as far south as on the east side, and the curve in the east approach, which will throw one too far south' on the west approach. Don’t think the excavation would interfere with one, unless a stranger not knowing the west approach. The south line of the west approach is one to two feet further north than the south line of the east approach.”
Re-direct examination: “I have passed over it quite often. A stranger not familiar with it is liable to go too far south. There is no danger if the west approach is known. There is no obstacle in making the approach good on both sides of the railroad. There is no danger at all on east approach, the only danger is in coming on the west apqjroach. I knew the road before the railroad was built, it was a plain bottom road.”
The cross-examination of these witnesses was substantially as their examination in chief, except they stated that if the wagon had been kept in the traveled track the accident would not have happened, but they also said that, to keep the wagon in the traveled track, the team must be pulled out of it, on account of the turn. They also said the traveled track could be kept by one who was acquainted with the crossing.
When we consider that Mrs. Brown had a right to rely upon the safety of the crossing, and that defendant had not performed its duty in constructing and maintaining it, I am unable to see anything in the foregoing showing a want of due care on her part. She could not see the condition or location of the west approach while she was driving1 up the east approach. “In coming up from the east one does not see the danger until he gets upon the railroad track, and if one is not acquainted with its condition he is liable to go off,” is the language of one of the witnesses, which is in substance stated by all and .contradicted by none.
To my mind the evidence for plaintiff makes out a *672remarkably clear case of neglect of a statutory duty on the part of defendant and fails in toto, to show any contributory negligence on the part of his wife. But it is urged that this evidence shows that if she had kept the wagon in the traveled track it would not have turned over. This is evident, but the testimony shows that on account of the east and west approaches not being opposite each other, and of the misleading position of the planks at the crossing, and that the danger could not be seen from the eastern approach, one unacquainted with the condition of the western approach will quite likely meet with just the accident that happened to Mrs. Brown. The evidence clearly establishes that if the horses drawing the wagon are kept in the track, the wagon, on account of the sharp turn, will go off. In order to avoid this the horses must be pulled sharply to the north, out of the traveled track. The inference to be drawn from all the testimony on this head, for plaintiff, is that one unacquainted with the western approach cannot cross with safety. This is in effect the statement of the witnesses, as expressed by one of them, “ One not familiar with the crossing is in danger of going over.” It will thus be seen that it was not error for the court to omit the hypothesis of contributory negligence in plaintiff’s instructions.
The instructions are further objected to on the ground that they submitted to the jury the question whether the crossing was “reasonably safe and convenient for public travel.” The primary meaning of the word convenient is fit, suitable, or adapted to use, and with this meaning it was not improper to use it in connection with the word safe.
Objection is made to plaintiff’s third instruction, in that it does not limit the period of plaintiff’s loss of service and society to three months, it being contended that the petition only claimed damages for a loss during that period. If we should concede that the petition is fairly subject to the interpretation given it by counsel, *673lie is in no position to complain of the instruction. Evidence fully as broad as the instruction was received without objection. There _ was no failure of proof of the cause of action “in its entire scope and meaning,” but if the matter was material, it was, at most, only a variance, which might have been cured by amendment if attention had been called to it. Defendant’s remedy was by affidavit proving.to the satisfaction of the court that it was misleading. Rev. Stat., sec. 3565; Turner v. Railroad, 51 Mo. 509; Meyers v. Chambers, 68 Mo. 626; Wells v. Sharp, 57 Mo. 56.
The further point is made against the instruction, in that it permitted a recovery for “ costs of medicines,” when the petition only charged “for nursing and medical attention.” If we should concede this was a variance at all, the remarks made as to the other objection are equally applicable to this.
The instruction given by the court of its own motion as to damages is a copy of that offered by defendant, except that the court added, after the words, “pecuniary loss to the plaintiff,” the words, “arising from his loss of her services or society.” We can see no objection to such addition. It only makes clear what must or ought to have been intended by that offered by defendant.
As to the contention regarding the amount of the pecuniary loss to plaintiff for the loss of his wife’s society, there is, as is said by counsel for plaintiff, no exact standard by which to measure the value of a wife’s society. The amount to be recovered must be left to the enlightened judgment of the jury, who must, under the evidence before them, fix upon a reasonable sum.
Other points presented by defendant’s counsel have been examined, but we have found nothing justifying a reversal of the cause. The evidence justifies the verdict.'
• The judgment, with the concurrence of the other judges, is affirmed.