Miller v. Miller

Letton, J.

The plaintiff began this action in the district court for Deuel county on March 5, 1908. In the petition he sets up certain specific acts which he alleges constitute extreme cruelty on the part of defendant. On the 31st of July an amended petition, omitting the former allegations as to cruelty, was filed, alleging extreme cruelty on the part of the defendant by the writing of a letter to him about September 9, 1907, containing certain false and foul charges against him of adultery and unnatural crimes, of such a nature that they, caused him great humiliation and mental anguish, and further charging that on or about July 8, 1908, she wrongfully and falsely made similar charges to certain acquaintances of plaintiff; that all of such charges, were false and untrue, and caused him great shame, humiliation, and disgrace, as well as mental anguish and suffering. The defense amounts practically to a general denial, with a plea that the plaintiff is not a resident of Deuel county, and that his residence is in Douglas county.

The plaintiff is a railway mail clerk. He, together with his wife and a grown daughter by a former wife, resided in Omaha until July, 1905, at which time he filed a petition in the district court for Douglas county, praying for a divorce from the defendant on the ground of extreme cruelty. He left defendant on that day and has resided apart from her ever since. An answer was filed, praying that the divorce be denied and for a decree of separate maintenance and support. After the testimony was introduced, the plaintiff dismissed the action without prejudice,-but the court gave defendant a judgment for support in the sum of $25 a month.

1. About the time the first action for divorce was brought, the plaintiff obtained permission from the post office department to remove his residence from Douglas county to Deuel county, where his brother lives. Plaintiff’s run extends from Omaha to Cheyenne. He works six days and rests for the next seven days. He rents a room in each of these cities to occupy while taking his regular runs, but spends the time between runs at his brother’s home in Deuel county. His daughter also makes her home there during her vacations, but attends school at North Platte while school is in session. Plaintiff has never voted in Deuel county, but has served as a juror there, and he has not voted in Douglas county since he moved. We feel satisfied that he is a bona, fide resident of Deuel county and entitled to maintain this action in the district .court for that county.

2. It is unnecessary in the consideration of this case to relate the acts and doings of the defendant which are relied upon to sustain the decree of divorce. We are satisfied that they would be sufficient to constitute extreme cruelty on the part of a wife toward a husband if they were living together at the time of their commission. The parties, however, at this time were living apart, and the question is presented whether such acts constitute a sufficient foundation for a decree of divorce under such circumstances, and when a decree for separate maintenance is in force against the husband. • The actions of defendant arid the charges made by her, as testified to by the three witnesses called by the plaintiff, were clearly of a nature such as to bring him into public disgrace and ignominy. A person of whom’such words were spoken must necessarily suffer extreme shame, humiliation, and anguish of mind. The plaintiff testifies that he was thereby compelled to shun the busy streets, to keep away from his friends and acquaintances, and that he suffered extreme shame, humiliation, and mental agony.

An unfounded and malicious accusation of infidelity, when made by the husband against the wife, is usually held to constitute such extreme cruelty as to warrant a divorce. Walton v. Walton, 57 Neb. 102; Ellison v. Ellison, 65 Neb. 412. Cases holding the converse of this doctrine are not so common, but, upon principle, where the accusations are of the gross and vile nature of those made by the defendant in this case, are. wantonly and falsely made, and where they have the result testified to by the plaintiff, we see no reason why the sex of' the injured party should change the rule. Perhaps where a charge of adultery is made by the wife, the tougher fibre of the male makes him better able to sustain the charge with equanimity than one of the gentler sex under a like accusation, and, hence, few cases are to be found where such an accusation made against the husband, standing alone, is held to be extreme cruelty. But, where the charge is’bestiality and unnatural crime, and the result of the accusation is shown to be as destructive of the purpose of the marriage relation as that of a false charge of adultery against a wife, the matter of sex alone should make no difference in the legal effect. MacDonald v. MacDonald, 155 Cal. 665; Myers A Myers, 88 Neb. 656.

Upon the question of the effect of the separation upon the right of the husband to a divorce for extreme cruelty consisting of false and scandalous charges, we are of the same opinion as that expressed by the supreme court of California in MacDonald v. MacDonald, supra, which is, substantially, that the mere fact that the parties are living apart when false charges are maliciously made by one spouse against the other does not necessarily prevent such charges constituting extreme cruelty. It is relevant and important only as it may aid in determining the question whether such charges inflicted grievous mental suffering tipon the injured party. See, also, 1 Bishop, Marriage, Divorce, and Separation, secs. 1282, 1300, 1302, 1306; 1 Nelson, Divorce and Separation, p. 306. While the words and acts of the defendant perhaps were not so aggravating and unbearable as they would have been if the parties had been living together, yet the very fact that it is the wife who malíes such charges against the husband must inevitably tend to render them more credible than if made by a stranger. We cannot see that the fact that the marriage bond has been weakened to a certain extent can or should operate to take away the sting and venom of false charges, or render that innocuous which under other circumstances would constitute such extreme cruelty as is recognized by the law as a just and proper ground for the entire dissolution of the marriage tie. The effect upon the plaintiff’s peace of'mind would be equally great in the one case as in the other.

We are disposed to view with charity some of the actions of the defendant in this case on account of her time of life, but under all the evidence we think the decree of the district court was justified. It is therefore

Affirmed.

Fawcett, J., concurs in the conclusion.