delivered the opinion of the court.
This is an appeal from a decree granting to Forest White an absolute divorce from his wife, Mildred Ann White.
The bill presented the complainant’s case in a double aspect, first upon an allegation of cruelty, praying for a divorce a mensa et thoro, and, second, upon an allegation of adultery, praying for a divorce a vinculo matrimonii.
*246There was a demurrer to the bill, which the court overruled. So far as this demurrer pertained to the charge of cruelty, it requires no consideration, as that branch of the case is not before us. The allegations charging adultery were sufficient, and the demurrer in this respect was properly overruled. The charge of adultery is as follows:
“Your complainant is further advised, and so charges, that on or about June 1st, and for some time previous thereto,, his wife, Mily Ann Smith White, has been guilty of infidelity to him, and has committed adultery with a certain man to your complainant unknown, who frequently calls at your complainant’s home while complainant is away following his vocation, and has relations with your complainant’s wife which are inconsistent with any other presumption except that complainant’s wife and the said unknown man have been guilty of acts of adultery.
“Complainant has been advised that his wife and a certain man who, as before stated, is unknown to complainant, retire to their bed room and remain together for long periods of time, and that complainant’s wife commits other acts, all of which tend to strengthen and confirm the belief that she has been guilty of infidelity to complainant.”
This was a sufficient compliance with the rule that the time, place and circumstances should be averred with reasonable certainty.. The allegations conform to the rule approved in this State and elsewhere generally. Miller v. Miller, 92 Va. 196, 199, 23 S. E. 232; Bishop on Marriage and Divorce (8th ed.) sec. 606; 14 Cyc. 665; 9 R. C. L., p. 418, secs. 219-220.
The next error assigned is that the court erred in reading the deposition of the complainant, Forest White, whose testimony in his own behalf was taken and filed in the cause over the objection of the defendant.
It is conceded that this witness would have been competent if the suit had been based solely on the charge of cruelty, *247but the contention here made is that he was not competent to testify upon the charge of adultery, and that, being incompetent for one purpose, he was incompetent for all purposes. The question is immaterial. The deposition in question, with one exception to be presently mentioned, dealt entirely with the charge of cruelty, and the decree complained of was based solely on the charge of adultery. The only particular in which the testimony of this witness related to the latter charge was his statement that he had not had anything to do with his wife since he learned of her infidelity. This statement, which tended to negative condo-nation, may be disregarded without affecting the correctness of the decree. Condonation is a matter of specific affirmative defense which must be specially pleaded, and the burden of proof is upon the defendant. 9 R. C. L. p. 346; 7 Enc. Pl. & Pr. 91; 14 Cyc. 682; Ann. Cas. 1912-C, note pp. 22, 26. The court may upon its own motion deny a divorce, even in the absence of any pleading setting up the defense, if it appears from the record that the injured party has condoned the acts complained of; but this eminently proper rule cannot be successfully invoked in the present case, where the defense is neither pleaded nor proved. It is true that the defendant in her answer says, “her said husband has resided at his home, 914 St. John street, and she and her said husband have lived and cohabited together as man and wife until Monday, June 26, three days after he had instituted his suit against her;” but, taking her answer as a whole, and in the face of her indignant and emphatic denial of the charge, she cannot, after her adultery has been proved, convert her plea of innocence into a plea of condonation. Innocence and condonation are thoroughly inconsistent defenses, and while it has been held that they may both be interposed in the same suit, the purpose of making both must not be left to doubtful inference. Nor can we hold that the evidence discloses the fact of condonation so as to enable us, upon our *248own motion, to deny the relief sought by the complainant. The testimony chiefly relied upon for this purpose is the statement of the defendant (who testified in her behalf without objection) and of her fourteen year old daughter, that shortly before this suit was instituted (not afterwards, as contended) the complainant was at the home at which he and the defendant had resided, and a statement made by their twelve year old son, who appears to have given the complainant the first definite information as to the infidelity of his wife. This latter statement was to the effect that the complainant remained at home “a right smart while” after-wards, giving as a reason that “he was trying to catch the man.” Upon this very meagre evidence the defendant asks us to hold that a condonation affirmatively appears, the argument being that cohabitation after knowledge of the offense constitutes condonation. The general rule undoubtedly is that where a husband, after he learns of adultery on the part of his wife, continues to reside with her, occupying the same room and bed, he will be presumed to be continuing his marital cohabitation; and such cohabitation, as against a husband, conclusively establishes the defense of condonation. But the evidence in this case fails to satisfy us that the plaintiff ever resumed marital cohabitation with his' wife after he knew of her guilt. Disregarding his testimony altogether, it is apparent that the relations of these parties during the period now in question, whether he was, in fact, staying at the house with her or not, were of a hosr tile and disagreeable character, and the distinct impression to be derived from the record is that there was no such conduct on his part as amounted to a condonation. The defendant having neither pleaded nor proved the defense here under consideration, and there being nothing in the record upon which we can sustain it, this assignment of error must be overruled.
*249The third and last assignment is that the court erred in holding that the evidence was sufficient to sustain the charge of adultery. The establishment of this charge depends upon the testimony of two small boys, children of the parties, aged, respectively, nine and twelve years. It is always regrettable and unfortunate that children of any age, and especially those of such tender years, should be involved as witnesses in cases of this character. For many and obvious reasons, they ought not to be introduced unless necessary to prevent a denial of justice, and in all such cases their testimony must be cautiously regarded because liable to be exaggerated or inaccurate. With due regard to these considerations, however, we are constrained, as was the court below, upon a careful consideration of the record, to the conclusion that the testimony of these two boys was substantially true.
Some criticism of the opinion of the lower court is made in the brief of counsel for appellant, on the ground that a certain note introduced in evidence, and the writing of which the defendant denied, was given considerable weight by the trial court, when, as a matter of fact, nothing appears in the record to show that the note in question had any bearing upon this case, even conceding that the defendant wrote it. The point is made too late. The card was the subject of considerable investigation and testimony in the lower court without any objection. It was evidently treated by the court and by counsel on both sides as being a proper subject of inquiry, and an examination of the original along with the copy which the defendant made at the trial, satisfies us, as it did the lower court, that the defendant wrote the original and falsely denied its authorship.
The evidence given by the two boys goes into details of a shocking and repulsive character, which neither require nor permit any further discussion. ■
We find no error in the decree complained of and it must be affirmed.
Affirmed.