Umlauf v. Umlauf

Mr. Justice Magrudeb

delivered the opinion of the Court:

Appellant filed a bill for divorce against appellee in the Superior Court of Cook County, and obtained a decree against her on April 22, 1887. The decree granted him a divorce on account of her desertion, but gave her the custody of the two children, one, a boy named Arthur, nine years old, and the other, a boy named Oscar, six years and six months old, and required him to pay her $40.00 monthly for the support of the two sons, being $20.00 per month for each, “until the further order of the court.” The decree found that both appellant and appellee were fit and proper persons to have the care, custody and tuition of the children, but it also found that, “on account of the tender ages of and the present physical condition of the said children, it is for their better welfare that they remain under the custody, care and tuition of the defendant, their mother, in whose custody they have been for the past six years. ”

Appellant took no appeal from this decree, and has never ' sought to have it reviewed by writ of error. Though favorable to him upon the question of the divorce, it was against him, so far as the custody of the children, and the payment of money to the appellee for their support, were concerned. He submitted to the decree, and made the monthly payments from the date of the rendition of the decree on April 22, 1887, to the first Monday of November, 1887. On October 13, 1887, he filed Ms petition in the same court, asking for the custody of the children. This petition, on final hearing, was dismissed.

It may sometimes be proper to give the mother the custody of the children even where the divorce is granted on account of her own desertion of her husband. (Reavis v. Reavis, 1 Scam. 242; Deenis v. Deenis, 79 Ill. 74). The controlling consideration with a court of equity, where both the husband and the wife are equally fit to have the care of the children, is the welfare of the children, and not the gratification of either parent. In such cases, the custody is often given to the mother, where the health or tender years of the children require her attention. (2 Bishop on Mar. & Div. 532; Stewart on Mar. & Div. sec. 402; Waring v. Waning, 100 N. Y. 570). Under our statute, the court may make such order touching “the care, custody and support of the children, or any of them, as, from the circumstances of the parties and the nature of the case, shall be fit, reasonable and just.” (Rev. Stat. chap. 40, sec. 18). The common law right of the father to the custody of the infant child will be made to yield to the discretionary power over the subject vested by the statute in the court, (Hewitt v. Long, 76 Ill. 399), where the best interests of the child demand it.

We are not prepared to say, that the decree of April, 1887, based upon evidence not now before us, was not right and proper at the time it was rendered. Indeed, the conduct of the defendant for six months thereafter, and the language contained in his petition, and in his brief filed in this court, would seem to indicate that he himself considered the decree as authorized by the facts as they then existed.

The 18th section of the Divorce Act provides,-however, that “the Court may, on application, from time to time, make such alterations in the allowance of alimony and maintenance, and the care, custody and support of the children as shall appear reasonable and proper.” The question then arises whether or not it would have been reasonable and proper to modify or change the terms of the decree, as to the custody of either or both of these boys, when appellant’s petition was dismissed in December, 1887.

As to the younger boy, we are of the opinion, that it was right to allow him to remain with his mother. He was barely seven years of age in December, 1887. In addition to being a delicate boy, he was lame. He is spoken of as being pale and as having been so for several years. One of the physicians says: “In the past I have treated the younger one the most,' treated him for typhoid fever and for malarial fever, chiefly typhoid, during the time specified from March to June of last year.” He had not yet been shown to be strong enough to attend regularly at school. He was entered in one of the public schools in the second week of September, 1887, and left in the following month, attending five weeks altogether. The evidence shows, that he has evinced a strong attachment for his mother, and a decided disinclination to go to his father. To have taken him away from his mother, against his will and in his feeble condition, may have proved injurious to his health.

As to the older boy, we think, under all the facts in the case, his custody should have been awarded to his father. It is true, that, according to the testimony of the two physicians who have given their evidence in the case, he was a boy of an exceedingly delicate and nervous temperament, and might become afflicted with the disease, known as St. Vitus’ dance, unless properly cared for. But he had been going to school for nearly two years, and was at school most of the time in the spring, summer and fall of 1887. At the time of the hearing he was nearly ten years old. His father met him on the street several times in May and June, 1887, and conversed with him, and he seemed to be well and in good spirits. He manifested a willingness to go with his father and to be in his company. He seemed to have more affection for his father than his younger brother exhibited. There is nothing in the evidence, which produces the impression, that it would injure his health or his spirits to take him from the custody of his mother. Henry M. Coburn, an attorney, who was with appellant during one of his interviews with the older son, and who appears to be an entirely disinterested witness, says: “Arthur said he would like to see his father frequently, but he was afraid his mother would punish him.”

It has not been made to appear to us, that the desertion, of which appellee was found guilty, was induced by the fault of appellant. Although the general rule, that the custody of the children will be given to the party in whose favor the divorce is granted, is never enforced when the welfare of the children will be injuriously affected by its enforcement, yet it must be clearly shown, that their welfare does really require the abrogation of the rule. After a careful study of this record, we are not led to the conclusion, that the true interests of the oldest son, either mental, moral or physical, will suffer in any way by placing him under the control of his father.

The proof shows that the appellant is á man of good character. There is nothing to indicate, that he is unworthy of being intrusted with the care of his son. He has a comfortable home of his own, well supplied with books and the usual and necessary comforts of life. He has two daughters by a former marriage, who keep house for him.

It is also true that the appellee is a good woman. There is not one word of proof to the contrary. But she is a dressmaker by trade and pursues that business, having under her charge, most of the time, quite a number of employees. She occupies a house of four stories, renting the rooms on the third and fourth floors, and reserving for herself the first and second floors. Being thus actively engaged in business, she can not devote to both of her boys as much time and attention, as she would be able to give them if she were differently situated. Particularly is this the ease with Arthur, who, as the older of the two, will not be as much under her notice as his younger and more afflicted brother. Unquestionably no other person can feel for a boy as his mother does, or show to him the love and affection, which he receives from his mother. But the rule is “that the right of the father is superior to that of every other person, and can only be made to yield when it is manir festly inconsistent with the health and welfare of the child.” (3 Smith’s Lead. Cases in Eq. 375.) We can not say, that it will be “manifestly inconsistent with the health and welfare of the child,” Arthur, that he shall be reared in his father’s home, and under the care of his father and his older sisters.

The judgment of the Appellate Court and the decree of the Superior Court are reversed, and the cause is remanded to the Superior Court, with directions to so modify its decree as to give the custody of the oldest child to the appellant, and to so reduce the amount to be paid monthly by the appellant as to require him to pay appellee $20.00 per month, instead of $40.00 per month, for the support of the youngest child, and with further directions to provide that both appellant and appellee shall have the privilege of visiting and freely communicating with both of said children. The costs of this proceeding must be paid by the appellant.

judgment reversed.