Husband appeals from an award of temporary maintenance pendente lite, attorneys fees, and expenses in a dissolution action. We find the court erred in granting affirmative relief to wife while she concealed information concerning her alleged attempt to hire a contract killer to murder her husband by invocation of her fifth amendment privilege against self-incrimination and we reverse and remand.
I
Wife’s petition for dissolution alleges that Kathleen Elaine Sparks and Roger Bruce Sparks were married on June 24, 1977, a son was born on November 16,1982 and that the parties separated November 28, 1985. The Petition for Dissolution was filed on December 10, 1985.
In January 1986 wife was arrested and subsequently indicted for the attempted murder of her husband. This criminal action is still pending in the Circuit Court of St. Louis County some 24 months after the grand jury returned the indictment.
On March 19, 1986 wife filed a Motion for Temporary Maintenance, Attorneys Fees, Suit Money and Costs Pendente Lite. Custody of the minor child was with husband and no modification of this arrangement was sought. Husband filed interrogatories, all but two of which wife answered. These two, relating to wife's relationship to the alleged contract killer and her actions in attempting to have her husband murdered, she refused to answer claiming her Fifth Amendment privilege against self-incrimination. Husband then moved to strike wife’s pleadings or to bar her from affirmative relief. The trial court denied these motions and scheduled a hearing on wife’s PDL motion.
At this hearing wife again refused on Fifth Amendment grounds to answer any questions which might pertain to the charge of attempted murder. She testified she was unemployed and had no income since her husband had ceased weekly deposits of $210 into her bank account after her arrest in January 1986. Although she had a college degree and experience in operating an antique business and working in her father’s CPA office, she had not sought employment. She claimed to be unable to work because of headaches, lack of transportation, and because of all the litigation in which she was involved. She had been living with her parents and other relatives under circumstances which she found very unsatisfactory.
A tape recording containing voices identified as those of wife and one Jeffery Imbo-den was admitted in evidence. The recording is of a conversation of January 13,1986 in which wife promised to pay Imboden $15,000 from the proceeds of life insurance in return for killing her husband. The recording includes discussions of such details as the amount of insurance on husband’s life, the furnishing of a gun to Im-boden, and a scheme for future contact by means of coded classified newspaper ads. Wife and Imboden were arrested on January 16,1986. One of the arresting officers testified that wife denied knowing Imboden at first, but when told of the tape recording she replied “yes, but I didn’t mean it” and “well, I took it back and I contacted Jeff and told him I didn’t want to do it.”
The trial court found that wife was unable to be gainfully employed solely because of the litigation in which she is involved and that she was without adequate means of support or to employ counsel. The trial court concluded that the tape recording was properly qualified and admissible in evidence but did not constitute a bar to an award to wife as conduct “is only one of numerous factors to be considered [pursuant to 452.335 RSMo.1986] and consideration of all other factors requires an award be made.” The court ordered husband to *565pay wife the sum of $840 per month retroactive to September 1, 1986 and $18,377.04 for attorneys fees and litigation expenses. In addition, the court ordered a stay of the dissolution proceeding until the criminal case against wife was concluded.
Husband appeals contending the award of maintenance and attorneys fees was an abuse of discretion and was not supported by substantial evidence, that the trial court erred in overruling his motion to deny wife affirmative relief, and in ordering a stay of the dissolution case until the criminal case against wife is concluded.
Our review is circumscribed by the oft-stated standards of Murphy v. Carron, 536 S.W.2d 30, 32 (Mo. banc 1976): “the decree or judgment of the trial court will be sustained by the appellate court unless there is no substantial evidence to support it, unless it is against the weight of the evidence, unless it erroneously declares the law, or unless it erroneously applies the law.”
II
Throughout the pre-hearing proceedings and during her testimony, the trial court assiduously protected wife’s constitutional right to refuse to testify regarding her relations and dealings with Imboden or to any matter concerning her alleged attempt to have her husband murdered. That she has a right to claim the privilege against self-incrimination so long as she is exposed to possible criminal prosecution is unquestioned. However, invocation of the privilege in a civil case, especially by one seeking affirmative relief from the court, is not without its price. We have not discovered a single case in which a Missouri court has approved, over timely objection, the granting of affirmative relief to a party who has asserted the privilege against self-incrimination regarding a subject relevant to the case.1 The rule was stated by the Missouri Supreme Court in Franklin v. Franklin, 365 Mo. 442, 283 S.W.2d 483, 486 (1955) as follows:
The law is that upon oral or written interrogatories being properly propounded to discover relevant and material facts peculiarly and exclusively within the knowledge of the party, his refusal to answer justifies striking his pleadings. Section 510.060 RSMo.1949, V.A.M.S.; Goodrich Zinc Corporation v. Carlin, D.C., 4 F.2d 568; State ex rel. Williams v. Buzard, 354 Mo. 719, 190 S.W.2d 907, 909(2, 3]; State ex rel. Cummings v. Witthaus, 358 Mo. 1088, 219 S.W.2d 383, 390, 8 A.L.R.2d 1124. This sound and salutary rule applies, insofar as we are advised, without exception to all parties seeking relief in the courts.
The Supreme Court proceeded to point out that application of this rule was especially appropriate in a divorce action, governed by the principles of a court of equity. This additional comment by the Supreme Court has been seized upon by wife’s counsel as a means of discrediting Franklin as a continuing authority. He argues “Franklin must be read in the context of the law which then required a party seeking a divorce to be an innocent and injured party and therefore to have ‘clean hands’ ”. This argument construes Franklin too narrowly. The opinion notes the rule applies “especially” to divorce actions governed by equitable principles such as the clean hands doctrine; it does not state that the rule has singular application to such cases. Moreover, “proceedings decided under the Dissolution of Marriage Act are no less charged with the principles of equity than are the old divorce actions.” McCully v. McCully, 550 S.W.2d 911, 914 (Mo.App.1977).
The facts in Franklin are particularly analogous to those of the instant case. In both the case at bar and in Franklin the wife initiated proceedings to dissolve the *566marriage. In both the wife refused on self-incrimination grounds to answer written interrogatories pertaining to a relevant issue. In both the wife sought temporary alimony or maintenance and attorneys fees PDL but refused to answer questions claiming the privilege against self-incrimination. In both wife contended the denial of the husband’s motion to strike her pleadings and the granting of her motion for temporary allowances was discretionary. In fact, our predecessor, the St. Louis Court of Appeals, in Franklin v. Franklin, 273 S.W.2d 737, 741 (Mo.App.1954) found no abuse of trial court discretion and affirmed the trial court’s award. The Missouri Supreme Court in the second reported Franklin opinion, at 283 S.W.2d 483, reversed the trial court and the intermediate appellate court and established the “sound and salutary rule [applicable] ... without exception to all parties seeking relief in the courts”. Id. at 486.
That no equitable or “clean hands” limitation was impressed upon the Franklin rule is evidenced by Geldback Transport, Inc., v. Delay, 443 S.W.2d 120 (Mo.1969) in which the Supreme Court applied the rule in affirming the dismissal of a claim for actual and punitive damages. The court adopted the language quoted from an annotation at 4 A.L.R. 545, 546, “a motion to dismiss a complaint, if timely made in the trial court, should be sustained where plaintiff exercised his privilege against self-incrimination to refuse to answer questions pertinent to the issues involved.” Geldback, supra, 443 S.W.2d at 121.
In Satterfield v. Satterfield, 635 S.W.2d 80, 81 (Mo.App.1982) this court described as “sound” the rule that “a party claiming the Fifth Améndment privilege against self-incrimination is not entitled to affirmative relief for himself against other parties.” In Hagenbuch v. Hagenbuch, 730 S.W.2d 269 (Mo.App.1987) this court upheld the striking of a husband’s pleading in a dissolution action after he invoked his privilege against self-incrimination and refused to answer questions relating to alleged marital misconduct. We stated that the Franklin rule is not intended to punish for the exercise of a constitutional right but rather is intended to promote fairness and prevent a party from obtaining an advantage from the invocation of the privilege.
Prevention of unfair advantage by concealment of pertinent information on pretrial discovery by invocation of the fifth amendment privilege was also the basis of the decision in State ex rel. Pulliam v. Swink, 514 S.W.2d 559 (Mo. banc 1974) where the court declined to apply the Franklin rule against a defendant in a wrongful death case, stating at page 561:
“The affirmative relief test and waiver theory of Franklin and Geldbaek are sound. It is not unfair to preclude one who invokes the assistance of the courts from recovery when he refuses to produce evidence peculiarly within his knowledge pertinent to his right to recover. It is something else again to require one who is in court involuntarily to elect between his constitutional privilege and the automatic entry of a judgment against him.”
Recognizing the potential unfairness of permitting a defendant to conceal relevant information during discovery the Supreme Court suggested that “[o]nce the privilege has been invoked to preclude discovery, trial courts have the power not to allow defendant to change his position and testify at trial to his benefit.” Id. In other words, the constitutional privilege may be used as a shield but not as a sword.
The conflict between reluctance to impose a penalty upon the exercise of a constitutional right and the need to prevent concealment of pertinent information in pre-trial discovery in civil cases has been thoroughly explored in Heidt, The Conjurer’s Circle — The Fifth Amendment Privilege In Civil Cases, 91 Yale L.J. 1062 (1982).2 Noting that the approach should *567not be the imposition of sanctions against the party invoking the privilege but rather the devising of remedies to protect the party stymied by its use from the disadvantage resulting from concealment, the article observes, “courts have shown no hesitation to assist defendants when the person invoking the privilege in a civil case is the plaintiff or the plaintiff’s employee. The most common judicial response is to dismiss the plaintiff’s action.” Id. at 1087. The rationale underlying this apparently harsh tactic is the inherent inconsistency between granting a party affirmative relief while simultaneously permitting that party to conceal information which may affect his right to obtain such relief. While no comparable policy consideration applies to the invocation of the privilege by a defendant, dragged into court involuntarily, nevertheless fundamental fairness requires that a plaintiff be afforded some remedy lest a defendant defeat the claim by concealment. The balance inherent in our adversary system is distorted if one party to a civil action is permitted by invocation of the privilege against self-incrimination to unilaterally control full presentation to the fact finder of all of the evidence pertaining to all of the issues. Thus, whether asserted by a plaintiff or a defendant, invocation of the privilege will, in most cases, require some form of judicial response of a remedial nature to eliminate any undue advantage which might flow from the ability to conceal pertinent evidence.
Wife argues that since none of the Missouri cases have mandated the dismissal of the claim or the striking of pleadings, such action is discretionary. We agree that the trial court is vested with discretion in fashioning an appropriate remedy to prevent unfairness and disadvantage from the concealment of pertinent information. However, that discretion does not extend to the granting of affirmative relief to the concealing party while the concealment continues. In Franklin, supra, the Supreme Court reversed the trial court’s award of temporary alimony and attorneys fees to a wife who invoked the privilege and reversed the St. Louis Court of Appeals decision characterizing such action as discretionary. However, on the basis of the argument of wife’s attorney that her full disclosure would show no criminality, the court remanded the cause to permit her to change her position. In Geldback, supra, the Supreme Court stated a motion to dismiss should be sustained where a plaintiff exercised the privilege. In Satterfield, supra, this court held the party claiming the privilege is not entitled to affirmative relief.
An analysis of all of the appellate court decisions on this question leads to the conclusion that the awarding of temporary allowances to wife while she refused to answer questions relating to allegations of serious, indeed egregious, misconduct was beyond the trial court’s discretion and was a misapplication of law. We are not implying that the assertion of the wife’s privilege mandated dismissal of her petition or the striking of her motion for temporary maintenance, although the decisions discussed above all indicate approval of such drastic action. These decisions clearly establish, however, that it was incumbent upon the trial court to devise some remedy, be it prevention of wife’s testimony, deferral of her motion, or other appropriate action, to prevent the disadvantage and unfairness inherent in compelling husband to proceed without full disclosure of wife’s actions in furtherance of the alleged murder plot.
Ill
Under the circumstances of this case we also reject wife’s argument that the Franklin rule has no application because misconduct is not relevant to a wife’s entitlement to temporary maintenance or attorneys fees PDL.3
*568The record in the instant case reflects recognition by the trial court that the extraordinary nature of the wife’s alleged misconduct merited consideration. The large part of five days of testimony was devoted to reception of evidence concerning this issue. The court made a specific finding of each of the requirements set forth in State v. Spica, 389 S.W.2d 35, 44 (Mo.1965) regarding the admissibility of tape recordings. The court’s conclusion that the evidence of wife’s misconduct warranted consideration indicates his acceptance of the evidence as credible. His further conclusion that wife’s misconduct was outweighed by consideration of the other factors set forth in § 452.335.2 is an exercise of discretion subject to appellate review only for abuse thereof.
Husband argues that by giving little or no weight to the evidence of such egregious misconduct as attempting to hire a contract killer to murder him, standing un-refuted on the record and supported by the strong adverse inference arising from wife’s refusal to testify concerning the matter, Woy v. Woy, 737 S.W.2d 769, 773 (Mo.App.1987), the trial court was guilty of an abuse of discretion. Despite the apparent incongruity of requiring a husband to continue to support his wife while she does not deny her involvement in a scheme to have him murdered, we do not address the issue of abuse of discretion. Our conclusion that the trial court misapplied the law in granting wife affirmative relief while she concealed pertinent evidence by invoking the privilege against self-incrimination is dispositive.
IV
For the same reason we do not rule at this time on husband’s contention that the trial court’s finding of wife’s inability to be gainfully employed because of her involvement in litigation is a misapplication of the law and is not supported by the evidence.
We do address husband’s complaint regarding that portion of the court’s order which imposes a stay of proceedings until after the completion of the wife’s pending attempted murder case. Although we question the wisdom of this order and note the constitutional question of denying the husband’s right of access to the courts as guaranteed by Article I § 14 of the Constitution of Missouri, the order is interlocutory, not final, and we have no jurisdiction to consider it on appeal. Wife may seek a vacation of the stay order in view of our ruling on her motion for temporary allowances. Husband may seek to set aside the stay order and proceed to final determination. In any event, such relief should be addressed to the trial court in the first instance.
The order of the trial court awarding wife temporary maintenance, attorney fees, and expenses is reversed. The cause is remanded to the trial court for further proceedings not inconsistent with this opinion.
All motions taken with the case are overruled.
REINHARD, STEPHAN, CRIST, SATZ, SIMON, GARY M. GAERTNER and GRIMM, JJ., concur. SMITH and KAROHL, JJ., concur in result with separate opinion by SMITH, J. PUDLOWSKI and CRANDALL, JJ., concur in result with separate opinion by CRANDALL, J.. In Morton v. City of Maplewood, 581 S.W.2d 924, 925 (Mo.App.1979) a motion to strike plaintiffs pleadings because of his claim of fifth amendment privilege at an administrative hearing was first filed on appeal. This court permitted plaintiff to seek reversal of the administrative agency decision because the request for sanctions was not timely presented to the proper tribunal. We find no other case in Missouri in which a plaintiffs pleadings were not stricken or his cause dismissed at either the trial or the appellate level after his assertion of the fifth amendment privilege against self-incrimination.
. Professor Heidt compares invocation of the privilege against self-incrimination in civil cases to the mythical conjurer’s circle — the circle drawn by a conjurer or wizard around a person concealing all within from demons. “Properly versed in the lore, civil defendants and their employees who intone the formula at every opportunity can draw a surprisingly wide conjur*567er’s circle around their conduct, a circle of mystery that works to their advantage.” Id. at 1064.
. In this argument wife relies upon such pre-Dissolution of Marriage Act cases as Berbiglia v. Berbiglia, 442 S.W.2d 949, 951 (Mo.App.1969). Because of the extraordinary nature of the allegations of misconduct in this case and because the trial court did in fact consider misconduct, we need not address the question of the continuing authority of such cases in view of the enact*568ment of § 452.315.5 and 452.335.2(7) RSMo. 1986.