Matter of KM

                             No.    95-512
           IN THE SUPREME COURT OF THE,STATE OF MONTANA
                                   1996


IN THE MATTER OF THE ESTATE,
CONSERVATORSHIP, AND
GUARDIANSHIP OF K.M.,
Kr.O., and Ka.O., Minor Children.




APPEAL FROM:   District Court of the Ninth Judicial District,
               In and for the County of Toole,
               The Honorable Marc G. Buyske, Judge presiding.


COUNSEL OF RECORD:
          For Appellant:
               Robert G. Olson, Frisbee, Moore & Olson, Cut Bank,
               Montana
          For Respondents:
               John Doubek, Small, Hatch, Doubek & Pyfer, Helena,
               Montana; Scott Swanson, Pendroy, Montana; Terry1
               Healy, Healy, McKay & Vogel, Cut Bank, Montana


                             Submitted on Briefs:       November 7, 1996
                                             Decided:   December 17, 1996
Justice William E. Hunt, Sr., delivered the Opinion of the Court.

        The grandparents of K.M., Kr.O.,       and Ka.0. appeal the decision
of the Ninth Judicial District Court, Toole County, concluding that

they lack the necessary standing to move for custody of their

grandchildren pursuant to 5 40-4-211, MCA.            We affirm.
        The sole issue presented on appeal is whether the District

Court erred in concluding that the grandparents of K.M., Kr.O., and

Ka.0.    lack the requisite standing to petition for custody of the

children pursuant to § 40-4-211, MCA.

        The children at issue in this case are the children of Lora,
the     grandparents'      daughter.   Lora gave birth to K.M.        in 1990.
K.M.'s father, Jeff K., initially denied paternity.           Once paternity
was established, however, Jeff paid court-ordered child support to

the Child Support Enforcement Division of the Montana Department of

Social     and    Rehabilitation   Services.     Although he fulfilled his

legal obligation to contribute to the support of K.M., Jeff never

exercised his right to visitation with his daughter until after

Lora had died and the grandparents had moved for custody of the

children.        Jeff and Lora were never married.

         In 1992,      Lora married Thorn 0.     That same year, Kr.0. was

born.     In 1993, Ka.0. was born.     The grandparents characterize Thorn

and Lora's marriage as "stormy, at best."             The   couple   apparently

separated several times for short periods, during which Lora and

the children would move back to the grandparents' home until she

and     Thorn    reconciled.



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       In July 1994, Thorn, Lora,       and the three children moved to
Arkansas,      Thorn's home state.      In January 1995,         Thorn left for
California,      leaving Lora and the children in Arkansas.                  The
grandparents contended that Thorn abandoned Lora and the children

when he left for California;          Thorn contended that his move was a

precursor to the entire family's relocation, but that he and Lora
had agreed that she and the kids should not come to California

until he had found work.

       Shortly after, Lora moved back to Montana from Arkansas.               She
and all three children again lived with the grandparents and Lora

applied to various Montana colleges.            At some point she learned

that she had received a grant to attend school in Great Falls. In

MaYI   1995,   Lora went down to California, leaving the children with

the    grandparents.    The   grandparents     contended   she    was   returning

Thorn's truck to him and that, by this time, the marriage was

essentially over. Thorn contended that Lora came down to California

to pick him up, and that they planned to move the family to Great

Falls while she went to school.

       On May 30, 1995, while on their way back to Montana, Lora and

Thorn were involved in a car accident and Lora was killed.                    The

children were at their grandparents'             home at the time of the

accident.       On June 5,    1995,    the grandparents moved for their

appointment as temporary guardians of the children, which motion

the District Court granted.           The   grandparents   subsequently     moved

for custody of the children pursuant to § 40-4-211, MCA; both Jeff

and Thorn opposed this motion.        After a hearing, the District Court


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concluded that the grandparents did not have standing to move for
custody of the children and, accordingly, dismissed their petition.
The grandparents appeal.
       Following the death of their daughter, the grandparents moved
for custody of the children pursuant to § 40-4-211, MCA, which
addresses who may institute a child custody proceeding.
       Section 40-4-211, MCA, provides in part:
       A child custody proceeding is commenced in the district
       court . . . by a person other than a parent, by filing a
       petition for custody of the child in the county in which
       he is permanently resident or found, but onlv if he is
       not in the uhvsical custody of one of his uarents.
 Section 40-4-211(4) (b), MCA (emphasis added).            The   grandparents
 contend that they have standing to move for custody of their three
grandchildren because the children were not in the physical custody
 of   their fathers when the petition was filed.                 Rather,   the
 grandparents     contend,   the children had been in their physical
 custody for at least five months before Lora's death.
       We reject the grandparents' contention that they had physical
custody of the children before Lora's death because the children
 were living with them.          The children were living with Lora, their
 mother,   who happened to live with her parents at that time.
       Therefore, it is uncontroverted that Lora had physical custody
 of all the children and that she never relinquished custody to
 anyone.        Just   because     the   children,   the   mother,   and   the
 grandparents lived in the same household for some months cannot
 serve to vest the grandparents with any right to custody of the
 children, any more than sharing a household with any person, be it

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a boyfriend, relative, or roommate,             will somehow create in that
person a right to seek custody of the child of another.

      The grandparents assert that while they may not have had

 physical    custody,   neither did the fathers at the time of Lora's

 death. The grandparents contend it is the lack of parental custody

 which gives them standing under § 40-4-211(4) (b), MCA.          Again, we

 disagree.
      Physical custody is not limited to actual possession of a

 child.      Rather,    the    phrase    "relates to the custodial rights

 involved in the care and control of the child."               Henderson   v.
 Henderson (19771, 174 Mont. 1, 5, 568 P.2d 177, 179 (citation

 omitted).     In Henderson, this Court equated the right to custody

 with actual physical custody.            In re Marriage of Schultz (19791,

 184 Mont. 245, 247, 602 P.2d 595, 596.            See also Webb v. Charles

 (Ariz.App.1980), 611         P.2d 562,    565; In re Custody of Peterson

 (111.19861,    491 N.E.2d 1150, 1153.           When one parent dies, the

 surviving parent automatically assumes the right to custody of the

 couple's children.       Schultz,      602 P.2d'at 596.

      Given the automatic transfer of the right to custody from the

 deceased custodial parent to the surviving parent at the moment of

 the former's death,          a third party must show far more than mere

 physical possession of the child in order to establish standing

 under 5 40-4-211, MCA.          The third party must demonstrate that the

 surviving parent has voluntarily relinquished his or her right to

 physical custody & present evidence to show the duration of the
separation between parent and child.'           In re Custody of R.R.K.
(19931,    260 Mont. 191, 198, 859 P.2d 998, 1004.
     The grandparents argue that Jeff and Thorn both voluntarily
relinquished their        right to   the care    and    custody of      their
respective    children.    They contend Thorn relinquished his right to
custody of Ka.0. and Kr.0. by abandoning Lora and the children in
Arkansas     when he moved to California.              They   contend    Jeff
relinquished his right to custody of K.M.               because he never
exercised his right to visitation with her until after Lora's
death.
     Thorn testified that he left Lora and the children in Arkansas
with Lora's agreement and consent.        He claimed that they agreed
that he should try to find work in California before sending for
her and the children.          He further testified that,         far from
abandoning the family,        he intended to either bring them to
California or to rejoin them all in Montana.            This testimony is
supported by the fact that he was returning to Montana with Lora
when the accident occurred.      While the grandparents challenged his
testimony, they did not present evidence sufficient to convincingly
prove that he abandoned his children and thereby voluntarily
relinquished his right to their custody in the event of their
mother's death.
     While Jeff did not exercise his right to visitation with his
daughter K.M.     until after Lora's death,      he fulfilled his legal
obligation to contribute to her support throughout that time.             The
grandparents    presented    no evidence showing that he voluntarily

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relinquished his right to K.M.'s custody except for his failure to
exercise      visitation.    That,   in and of itself,   is insufficient to
divest him of his right to parent his child.
        As soon as they became aware of the grandparents' petition for
custody following Lora's death, both Jeff and Thorn stepped forward
and asserted themselves to be ready and willing to care for their
children.       Because there was no showing that either father had
voluntarily relinquished his right to custody of his respective
child    or    children,    the grandparents did not have standing to
petition for custody pursuant to § 40-4-211, MCA. The decision of
the District Court is affirmed.



We Concur:


          Chief Justice




               Justices
Justice W. William Leaphart, specially concurring



        I concur with the Court's conclusion that the grandparents do
not have standing as persons "other than a parent" to petition for
adoption under § 40-4-211(4) (b), MCA, since the children, although
physically present with the grandparents when their mother died,
were nonetheless in the "custody" of their surviving fathers.
        In specially concurring, however, I note that respondent Jeff
K. argued that § 40-4-221(2) (e), MCA:
        mirrors the previously existing law embodied in        Section
             40-4-211(4) (b) M.C.A., giving a non-parent       similar
        standing in     a non-death situation, "but only       if [the
        child] is not in the      physical custody of one       of his
        parents."
Jeff K.'s argument fails to recognize that there is a substantive
distinction between §§ -211 and -221 with regard to the standing
issue presented in this case.           Section   40-4-221,   MCA,   provides
that,    upon the death of a parent granted custody of a child,
custody passes to the surviving noncustodial parent unless one or
more of the parties named in subsection (2) requests a custody
hearing.     Included in the list of persons who may request a custody
hearing is "any     other person if that person has actual physical
control over the child[.l"       Unlike 5 40-4-211(4) (b), MCA, which
focuses on physical "custody," § 40-4-221(2) (e), MCA, focuses on
physical    "control."   Certainly the grandparents in this matter had
physical control of the children.          Accordingly,   they would have
standing to request a custody hearing under § -221.            The ultimate
decision as to an of award custody under § -221 would be controlled
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by our recent decision in In re A.R.A. (Mont. 1996), 919 P.2d 388,
392, 53 St.Rep. 543, 545-46.


                                           Justice Y

Chief Justice J. A. Turnage and Justice James C. Nelson join in the
foregoing special concurrence.




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