IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 21-0351
Filed June 16, 2021
IN THE INTEREST OF J.D.,
Minor Child,
K.U., Mother,
Appellant.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Rachael E. Seymour,
District Associate Judge.
A mother appeals the termination of her parental rights. AFFIRMED.
Agnes G. Warutere of Warutere Law Firm, PLLC, Ankeny, for appellant
mother.
Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Kathryn K. Lang, Assistant
Attorney General, for appellee State.
Lisa A. Allison of Allison Law Firm, LLC, Des Moines, for appellee father.
Paul White of Juvenile Public Defender, Des Moines, attorney and guardian
ad litem for minor child.
Considered by Bower, C.J., and Tabor and Ahlers, JJ.
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BOWER, Chief Judge.
A mother appeals the termination of her parental rights to J.D. She
challenges the grounds for termination and the court’s “pattern of conduct”
consideration for termination, argues termination is not in the best interests of the
child, and asks the court to apply two of the permissive exceptions to termination.
We find the grounds for termination were established by clear and convincing
evidence, the mother’s behavior was a valid concern, and termination was in the
child’s best interests. We decline to apply the exceptions to termination in this
case.
J.D. was born in September 2017. The mother and father broke up shortly
after J.D.’s birth, and the mother began dating. In early 2018, the mother’s
children1 were exposed to marijuana in the home. As a result, in April, the mother
pled guilty to child endangerment and was granted a deferred judgment.
On April 28, the mother left the children in her boyfriend’s care while she
went to work. Later that morning, the boyfriend called 911 after J.D. vomited,
became lethargic, and stopped breathing. The child was hospitalized and almost
died from significant non-accidental injuries consistent with being violently shaken.
Hospital records indicate the child had older brain injuries as well as recent trauma
upon admission. The child also suffered heart attacks before and while in the
hospital.
1 The mother has a second child approximately eighteen months older than J.D.
In May 2018, J.D.’s older half-sibling was removed and placed with the maternal
grandparents and is now in a guardianship under their care.
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The child has severe permanent disabilities as a result of the abuse suffered
while in the mother’s custody. The child requires a high level of care with frequent
medical appointments, regular physical and occupational therapy, nutrition
controlled via a feeding tube, and multiple medications. The child has little ability
to communicate and limited bodily control.
On May 18, the child was discharged from the hospital to ChildServe for
additional medical care.2 The parents consented to the child’s removal, and legal
custody was given to the maternal grandparents. On June 21, the child was
adjudicated a child in need of assistance (CINA) pursuant to Iowa Code section
232.2(6)(b) (2018) (a parent or member of the household has or is “imminently
likely to abuse or neglect the child”), (c)(2) (parent or member of household failed
“to exercise a reasonable degree of care in supervising the child”), and (n)
(parent’s “mental capacity or condition, imprisonment, or drug or alcohol abuse
results in the child not receiving adequate care”).
Following discharge from ChildServe on December 7, 2018, through
October 18, 2019, the child was placed with the maternal grandparents. At that
time, the goal was to reunite the child with the mother. In March 2019, the mother
requested immediate reunification, but the court changed the permanency goal to
reunification of the child with the father, citing the mother’s lack of insight into the
2 ChildServe provides short- and long-term “pediatric rehabilitation and care for
children and young adults who have a wide variety of developmental delays,
disabilities, acquired injuries, and other special healthcare needs.” Getting to
Know ChildServe, ChildServe, https://www.childserve.org/about/ (last visited May
25, 2021).
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cause of the child’s injuries and her role in the injuries. On October 18, the child
was placed in the father’s custody.
The child goes to ChildServe five days a week for daycare, and the father
does caregiving at home. He receives help in scheduling appointments, food and
diaper assistance, and medication management from a social worker. The mother
has weekly ninety-minute visits with the child supervised by her parents.
For much of the CINA proceedings, the mother denied either she or her
then-boyfriend were responsible for the injuries, instead seeking to blame a
babysitter or accident.3 The department of human services (DHS) identified this
failure to take accountability and acknowledge the injuries caused as a primary
concern. The mother often presented a “flat affect” when discussing the child’s
injuries and severity. At the termination hearing, the mother finally stated her
former boyfriend was the one who hurt the child.
At permanency hearings4 and permanency review hearings,5 the mother
presented evidence of alleged deficiencies in the father’s care and requested the
child be placed with her or her parents.6 Each time, the court found the father’s
care adequate and declined to change the permanency goal. After the July 2020
3 The police criminal investigation centered on the mother and her boyfriend, but
ended without charges being filed. The juvenile court concluded “the State is
unable to prove which individual, Mother or her paramour, inflicted the abuse.”
4 Permanency hearings were held on December 18, 2018, and March 13, 2019.
5 Permanency review hearings were held on June 13, September 12 and 16,
October 18, 2019, and February 19, March 6, April 9, and July 8, 2020.
6 For example, in the September to October 2019 review hearing, the mother and
grandmother alleged the father had not changed the child’s food bag for several
days. Neither brought the problem to the attention of the child’s daycare or the
father, instead photographing the bag to use as evidence of the father’s care. The
court found the photographic evidence disproved the mother’s allegations.
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hearing, the court ordered the parties to address how to close the CINA case. The
parents did not reach a custodial agreement.
On September 23, 2020, the father filed a petition to terminate the mother’s
parental rights.7 DHS filed a report agreeing with the termination request,
specifically noting the mother’s continual challenge of the adequacy of the father’s
care and the disruptions it caused in the child’s life. The termination hearing
spanned six days between October 27 and December 9, 2020. Much of the
mother’s argument at the termination hearing concentrated on the care the father
was providing the child rather than the mother’s ability to parent the child.
The mother asked the juvenile court to order the parents to petition the
district court to obtain a custody order, acknowledging the court would likely give
the father sole legal custody of the child. The child’s court-appointed special
advocate opined the only way to assure the child’s safety would be to terminate
the mother’s parental rights. The State agreed with the father and argued in favor
of termination of the mother’s parental rights. The child’s attorney and guardian
ad litem joined in the State’s recommendation.
On March 1, 2021, the juvenile court terminated the mother’s parental rights
under three grounds: Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(d), (h), and (i).
7 Although normally filed by the State, “A child’s guardian, guardian ad litem, or
custodian, the department of human services, a juvenile court officer, or the county
attorney may file a petition for termination of the parent-child relationship and
parental rights with respect to a child.” Iowa Code § 232.111 (2020). We have
held a parent with custody of the child has standing as “custodian” for purposes of
filing a petition for the termination of parental rights under chapter 232. See In re
S.R., No. 00-0884, 2001 WL 539670, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. May 23, 2001).
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The mother appeals. The father filed a response to the mother’s appeal,
arguing in favor of termination, in which the State joined.
We review termination-of-parental-rights proceedings de novo. In re A.B.,
815 N.W.2d 764, 773 (Iowa 2012). We give weight to the findings of the court but
are not bound by them. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g).
Pattern of conduct.8 The mother contends there was no negative change
in her situation between the July 2020 permanency review order—which ordered
the parties to hold a staffing addressing case closure—and the end of the
termination hearing. She notes the court did not order the State to file the
termination petition and the petition was not filed by the State or the guardian ad
litem. She also takes issue with the court’s reference to her “pattern of conduct”
toward the father.
While the State did not file the petition, it argued in favor of termination at
the hearing, as did the guardian ad litem and DHS. We find no specific negative
change in this long-standing situation was required to justify the filing of a
termination petition, and the mother cites no authority to support such a constraint.
At the time the petition to terminate was filed, the child had been out of the mother’s
care for more than two years.
“While we recognize the law requires a ‘full measure of patience with
troubled parents who attempt to remedy a lack of parenting skills,’ Iowa has built
this patience into the statutory scheme of Iowa Code chapter 232.” In re C.B., 611
8 The mother’s petition describes the first issue as: “The district court erred in
terminating Mother’s parental rights primarily because the parents could not agree
on the terms of a Bridge Order.” She makes no argument regarding the bridge
order, and therefore we will not discuss it.
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N.W.2d 489, 494 (Iowa 2000) (citation omitted). The legislature incorporated a six-
month limitation for a CINA aged three and below. Id. Once that statutory period
has lapsed, we view termination proceedings “with a sense of urgency.” Id. at 495.
The pattern of conduct that concerned the juvenile court was the mother’s
constant challenge of the father’s care to DHS, to medical providers, and to the
court at each permanency hearing. The mother did not accept the father’s efforts
to address the problems she reported, and the professional caregivers working
with the child generally did not share her concerns. Even at the extended hearing
regarding termination of her parental rights, the mother attempted to discredit the
father’s care rather than explain why her rights should not be terminated.
The mother’s hostility toward the custodial father and interference in his
care is a valid concern for the court. However, that concern alone could not have
resulted in termination of the mother’s parental rights. The petition had to be
supported by clear and convincing evidence of at least one statutory ground for
termination.
Grounds for termination. The mother challenges all three grounds for
termination. “When the juvenile court terminates parental rights on more than one
statutory ground, we may affirm the juvenile court’s order on any ground we find
supported by the record.” A.B., 815 N.W.2d at 774. We focus on Iowa Code
section 232.116(1)(h).
Under section 232.116(1)(h), the court may terminate parental rights if
(1) The child is three years of age or younger.
(2) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of
assistance pursuant to section 232.96.
(3) The child has been removed from the physical custody of
the child’s parents for at least six months of the last twelve months,
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or for the last six consecutive months and any trial period at home
has been less than thirty days.
(4) There is clear and convincing evidence that the child
cannot be returned to the custody of the child’s parents as provided
in section 232.102 at the present time.
The mother concedes the first three elements have been met: the child is
three years old, has been adjudicated a CINA, and has been out of the mother’s
physical custody since April 2018 with no trial period at home. However, she
asserts “there was no clear and convincing evidence that [the child] could not be
returned to Mother at the time of the hearing.”
At the termination hearing, the mother did not request the child be returned
immediately to her care. This implicit concession establishes the child cannot be
returned to the mother at present. She opined that “given the time” she could take
care of the child but asked the child be placed with her parents in the interim.9 The
mother has only had weekly supervised visitation with the child at her parents’
home, and the child has been out of her care for over three years. Although the
mother has participated in services offered, until the time of the termination hearing
she resisted accepting how the child was injured or taking responsibility for her
role in the child’s injuries..
Based on our de novo review, we find clear and convincing evidence the
child could not be returned to the mother’s care at the time of the hearing and
grounds for termination of the mother’s parental rights were established under
Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(h).
9The mother also suggested a bridge order where the father had sole legal custody
and physical care of the child with the option of her visiting once every three
months.
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Best interests. The mother asserts that without her oversight the father
would not meet the child’s physical and medical needs properly and termination of
her rights is not in the best interests of the child. In considering a child’s best
interests, we give consideration “to the child’s safety, to the best placement for
furthering the long-term nurturing and growth of the child, and to the physical,
mental, and emotional condition and needs of the child.” Iowa Code § 232.116(2);
In re P.L., 778 N.W.2d 33, 40 (Iowa 2010). Once a ground for termination has
been proved, we cannot deprive children of permanency on the hope a parent will
learn to be responsible and reliable. A.B., 815 N.W.2d at 777–78.
During the seven months the child lived with the mother, the child was
exposed to controlled substances in the home and then severe, life-threatening
abuse by either the mother and/or her boyfriend. After the child’s traumatic and
permanent injuries, the mother spent her time and efforts trying to discredit the
father’s care to medical personnel, DHS, and the court, and seeking to move the
child to her parents’ custody rather than work with the father to provide the best
possible care for the child.
This child needs safety, stability, and a permanent home. The mother has
consistently sought to disrupt the stability and permanency the child can achieve
with the father only to place the child in another temporary situation with her
parents. The mother’s actions prioritize what she wants rather than the child’s best
interests. We find termination of the mother’s parental rights to be in the child’s
best interests.
Statutory exceptions. The mother identifies two statutory exceptions she
believes are applicable to preclude termination.
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The court need not terminate the relationship between the
parent and child if the court finds any of the following:
(a) A relative has legal custody of the child.
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(c) There is clear and convincing evidence that the termination
would be detrimental to the child at the time due to the closeness of
the parent-child relationship.
Iowa Code § 232.116(3)(a), (c). The father has legal custody of the child, and the
mother claims her bond with the child is demonstrated by a “positive reaction” to
her voice.
“[O]nce the State has proven a ground for termination, the parent resisting
termination bears the burden to establish an exception to termination.” In re A.S.,
906 N.W.2d 467, 476 (Iowa 2018). The exceptions to termination are permissive
not mandatory. Id. “We may use our discretion, based on the unique
circumstances of each case and the best interests of the child, whether to apply
the factors in this section to save the parent-child relationship.” Id. (citation
omitted). For the first exception, the relative with custody of the child—the father—
is actively seeking termination of the mother’s parental rights. As to the other
exception, the mother has not met her burden to show her bond with the child is
so close that termination of the relationship would be detrimental to the child.
We decline to apply the exceptions to termination. Termination of the
mother’s parental rights is appropriate in this case.
AFFIRMED.