In the Interest of P.H. and E.H., Minor Children

                     IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

                                   No. 21-1654
                             Filed January 12, 2022


IN THE INTEREST OF P.H. and E.H.,
Minor Children,

B.H., Mother,
       Appellant.
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       Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Romonda Belcher,

District Associate Judge.



       A mother appeals the termination of her parental rights. AFFIRMED.




       Eric W. Manning of Manning Law Office, PLLC, Urbandale, for appellant

mother.

       Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Ellen Ramsey-Kacena, Assistant

Attorney General, for appellee State.

       Lynn Vogan of Youth Law Center, Des Moines, attorney and guardian ad

litem for minor children.




       Considered by Bower, C.J., and Greer and Badding, JJ.
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BOWER, Chief Judge.

        A mother appeals the termination of her parental rights. She contends the

State failed to prove the grounds for termination by clear and convincing evidence.

In the alternative, she asks for more time to reunite with the children. She also

claims her bond with the children provides an exception to terminating her parental

rights under Iowa Code section 232.116(3)(c) (2021). We review her claims de

novo. See In re A.B., 956 N.W.2d 162, 168 (Iowa 2021). We give weight to the

juvenile court’s fact findings, especially those concerning witness credibility,

although we are not bound by them. Id.; see also Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g).

        This family came to the attention of the department of human services in

June 2019 as a result of a reports the mother was using methamphetamine while

caring for the children. The children were placed out of the mother’s care in July

2019.1 Except for a two-week trial home visit in March 2021 for P.H., the children

have not been in the mother’s care. During the underlying CINA proceedings, the

mother has been hospitalized more than once due to her mental-health and

substance-abuse issues—the most recent hospitalization occurred in August

2021.

        After an October 15, 2021 hearing, the juvenile court terminated the

mother’s rights to both children on two statutory grounds.2 We may affirm if the




1 The mother first voluntarily placed the children in a friend’s care. In September
2019, the children were adjudicated children in need of assistance (CINA). E.H.,
born in 2015, is placed with his biological father. P.H., born in 2017, is in the care
of the maternal grandmother.
2 Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(f) and (l).
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record supports termination on either ground. See In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d 764,

774 (Iowa 2012). The court may terminate under section 232.116(1)(f) if it finds:

              (1) The child is four years of age or older.
              (2) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of
       assistance pursuant to section 232.96.
              (3) The child has been removed from the physical custody of
       the child’s parents for at least twelve of the last eighteen months, or
       for the last twelve consecutive months and any trial period at home
       has been less than thirty days.
              (4) There is clear and convincing evidence that at the present
       time the child cannot be returned to the custody of the child’s parents
       as provided in section 232.102.

       On appeal, the mother challenges only subparagraph (4), asserting the

children could be returned to her care. This is contradicted by her own testimony

at the hearing. The mother was asked, “Are you in a location and a position where

the [children] could be safely returned to you today?” She responded, “No. God,

no.” The evidence presented at trial established the mother has not adequately

addressed her long-term mental-health and substance-abuse issues. She was

living in an abandoned house with a registered sex offender and hoping to enter

in-patient treatment within two weeks.       The mother agreed that it was in the

children’s best interests to be in a stable, drug-free home where their caregiver is

able to handle their mental-health needs. There is clear and convincing evidence

to support termination of the mother’s rights.

       The mother asserts the juvenile court should have allowed her additional

time to seek reunification.     But these children have been in out-of-home

placements since July 2019. A permanency order was filed in March 2021, and

the mother has already had more than the statutory period to reunite with her

children. Because the statutory period has been exceeded, we view the situation
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with a “sense of urgency.” In re C.B., 611 N.W.2d 489, 495 (Iowa 2000). The

children have already waited more than two years for their mother to deal with her

mental-health and substance-abuse issues. She has been unwilling or unable to

do so. Further time in limbo for these children is not warranted.

       The mother contends we can avoid termination of her parental rights based

on exceptions found in Iowa Code section 232.116(3). These exceptions are

“permissive, not mandatory,” so the court is not required to apply them even if they

have been established. In re A.S., 906 N.W.2d 467, 475 (Iowa 2018) (citation

omitted). The parent resisting termination bears the burden of proof to establish

an exception under section 232.116(3). Id.at 476. The mother has failed to do so.

       The mother asserts that because the children are in relative care, we need

not terminate her parental rights. See Iowa Code § 232.116(3)(a). “An appropriate

determination to terminate a parent-child relationship is not to be countermanded

by the ability and willingness of a family relative to take the child. The child’s best

interests always remain the first consideration.” A.S., 906 N.W.2d at 475 (citation

omitted).

       And the mother has not shown her bond with the children is so close that

termination of her rights would be detrimental to the children.           Iowa Code

§ 232.116(3)(c). The juvenile court found:

       The bond with the mother has waned given the length of time [E.H.]
       has been out of her care and given the lack of consistent contact with
       [P.H.] There is no question that the mother loves her children. At
       this time, however, she is incapable of providing for her own needs,
       much less meeting the needs of the children. The bond is not such
       that a termination of parental rights would present a detriment to
       either child. The bonds between the relative placements and the
       children are strong and loving. They each are committed to meeting
       the respective child’s needs long-term.
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      On our de novo review, we agree with the juvenile court that grounds for

termination exist, no extension of time is warranted, and termination of the

mother’s parental rights is in the children’s best interests, which is not

countermanded by any permissive exception. We therefore affirm.

      AFFIRMED.