M.P.K. v. J.N.G.

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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

    M.P.K.                                     :   IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF
                                               :        PENNSYLVANIA
                       Appellant               :
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                v.                             :
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    J.N.G.                                     :   No. 1810 MDA 2017

                Appeal from the Order Entered November 1, 2017
                 In the Court of Common Pleas of Berks County
                         Civil Division at No(s): 12-1397

BEFORE:      PANELLA, J., OLSON, J., and STEVENS, P.J.E.*

MEMORANDUM BY PANELLA, J.                                 FILED APRIL 19, 2018

        M.P.K. (“Father”) appeals from the order entered November 1, 2017,1

in the Court of Common Pleas of Berks County, which denied his petition for
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* Former Justice specially assigned to the Superior Court.

1Appellant’s notice of appeal purports to appeal “from the order dated October
31, 2017.” Notice of Appeal, filed 11/28/17. An order does not become
appealable on a certain date simply because the trial court signs it on that
date.

  “[N]o order of a court shall be appealable until it has been entered upon the
appropriate docket in the lower court.” Pa.R.A.P. 301(a)(1). The entry of an
order and the specific date of entry is defined in Rule 108(b): “The date of
entry of an order in a matter subject to the Pennsylvania Rules of Civil
Procedure shall be the day on which the clerk makes the notation in the docket
that notice of entry of the order has been given as required by Pa.R.Civ.P.
236(b).” Pa.R.A.P. 108(b). Rule 236(b) requires that “[t]he prothonotary shall
note in the docket the giving of the notice....” “Thus, pursuant to the express
terms of the rules, an order is not appealable until it is entered on the docket
with the required notation that appropriate notice has been given.” Frazier v.
City of Philadelphia, 735 A.2d 113, 115 (Pa. 1999) (citations omitted). See
also G. Ronald Darlington, et al., Pennsylvania Appellate Practice § 108:10,
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modification of custody with respect to his minor son, N.T. (“Child”). We

affirm.

       Child was born to Father and J.N.G. (“Mother”) in January 2012. Father

and Mother never married or lived together. Currently, Father is married to

D.K. (“Stepmother”). Father and Stepmother have two biological children

together, M.K., born in February 2013, and H.K., born in October 2014.

Mother is married to J.C.G., III (“Stepfather”), although they are separated.

Mother and Stepfather have one biological child together, H.G., born in August

2015. Mother has an adult child from a prior relationship, T.B., who lives

independently. Stepfather also has a child from a prior relationship, J.G., born

in January 2009. J.G. lives primarily with his paternal grandparents, but

continues to spend time with Mother.

       Father and Mother exercise custody of Child pursuant to an agreed-upon

custody order entered April 2, 2013.2 The order awards primary physical

custody of Child to Mother and awards partial physical custody to Father

according to a two-week rotating schedule. In week one, the order awards

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Volume 20 (2016–2017 ed.). “[T]his is a bright-line rule, to be interpreted
strictly.” In re L.M., 923 A.2d 505, 509 (Pa. Super. 2007).

 Here, while the trial court signed the order on October 31, the lower court
prothonotary entered the order on the docket, with the appropriate notation,
on November 1. We have corrected the appeals statement of the caption
accordingly.

2The trial court made minor modifications to the April 2, 2013 order by orders
entered September 10, 2013, and August 28, 2014. These modifications did
not affect the parents’ custody schedule.

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Father partial physical custody from 6:00 p.m. on Friday until 6:00 p.m. on

Tuesday. In week two, the order awards Father partial physical custody from

6:00 p.m. on Saturday until 6:00 p.m. on Tuesday. The order also awards

shared legal custody to both parents.

        On March 9, 2017, Father filed a petition for modification of custody, in

which he requested primary physical custody of Child. On June 19, 2017,

Mother filed a combined answer, counter-petition for modification of custody,

and petition for contempt. Therein, Mother requested that the trial court

reduce Father’s periods of partial physical custody, and award her sole legal

custody regarding medical and educational decisions. Mother also alleged that

Father was in contempt of the prior custody order, for making derogatory

remarks about her and Stepfather, and for interfering with her ability to speak

with Child on the phone.

        The trial court conducted a hearing on September 29, 2017, and October

26, 2017. Following the hearing, by order entered November 1, 2017, the

court directed that the parents would continue to exercise custody of Child

pursuant to the April 2, 2013 order. The court also added several new custody

provisions. Relevant to this appeal, the order directed that Child would attend

the Exeter Township School District, and that Father and Stepmother “shall

not permit the Minor Child to touch any cat at any time” due to his cat allergy.3

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3   The order did not address Mother’s contempt allegations.




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Order, 11/1/17. Father timely filed a notice of appeal on November 22, 2017.

Father filed a concise statement of errors complained of on appeal on

December 6, 2017.4

       Father now raises the following issues for our review.

       I. Did the trial court err when it failed to provide appropriate
       weight to the individual custody factors enumerated in 23
       Pa.C.S.A. §[]5328 in issuing its October 31, 2017 decision and
       order?

       II. Did the trial court err when it failed to consider the best
       interests of the child and instead punished Appellant/Father for
       filing a petition to modify custody?

       III. Did the trial court err when it ordered the minor child to attend
       the Exeter School District?

       IV. Did the trial court err when it ordered that Appellant/Father
       and Stepmother shall not permit the minor child to touch any cat
       at any time when there was no expert medical testimony provided
       to establish any allergy of the minor child to animals?

Father’s Brief, at 3 (unnecessary capitalization and suggested answers

omitted).

       We consider Father’s issues mindful of our well-settled standard of

review.

       In reviewing a custody order, our scope is of the broadest type
       and our standard is abuse of discretion. We must accept findings
       of the trial court that are supported by competent evidence of
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4 Father violated Pa.R.A.P. 1925(a)(2)(i) by failing to file a concise statement
at the same time as his notice of appeal. We have accepted Father’s concise
statement pursuant to In re K.T.E.L., 983 A.2d 745, 748 (Pa. Super. 2009)
(holding that the appellant’s failure to comply strictly with Pa.R.A.P.
1925(a)(2)(i) did not warrant waiver of her claims, as there was no prejudice
to any party).

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     record, as our role does not include making independent factual
     determinations. In addition, with regard to issues of credibility and
     weight of the evidence, we must defer to the presiding trial judge
     who viewed and assessed the witnesses first-hand. However, we
     are not bound by the trial court’s deductions or inferences from
     its factual findings. Ultimately, the test is whether the trial court’s
     conclusions are unreasonable as shown by the evidence of record.
     We may reject the conclusions of the trial court only if they involve
     an error of law, or are unreasonable in light of the sustainable
     findings of the trial court.

V.B. v. J.E.B., 55 A.3d 1193, 1197 (Pa. Super. 2012) (citations omitted).

     “When a trial court orders a form of custody, the best interest of the

child is paramount.” S.W.D. v. S.A.R., 96 A.3d 396, 400 (Pa. Super. 2014)

(citation omitted). The factors to be considered by a court when awarding

custody are set forth at 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5328(a).

     (a) Factors.--In ordering any form of custody, the court shall
     determine the best interest of the child by considering all relevant
     factors, giving weighted consideration to those factors which
     affect the safety of the child, including the following:

           (1) Which party is more likely to encourage and permit
           frequent and continuing contact between the child and
           another party.

           (2) The present and past abuse committed by a party
           or member of the party’s household, whether there is
           a continued risk of harm to the child or an abused
           party and which party can better provide adequate
           physical safeguards and supervision of the child.

           (2.1) The information set forth in section 5329.1(a)
           (relating to consideration of child abuse and
           involvement with protective services).

           (3) The parental duties performed by each party on
           behalf of the child.



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           (4) The need for stability and continuity in the child’s
           education, family life and community life.

           (5) The availability of extended family.

           (6) The child’s sibling relationships.

           (7) The well-reasoned preference of the child, based
           on the child’s maturity and judgment.

           (8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against
           the other parent, except in cases of domestic violence
           where reasonable safety measures are necessary to
           protect the child from harm.

           (9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving,
           stable, consistent and nurturing relationship with the
           child adequate for the child’s emotional needs.

           (10) Which party is more likely to attend to the daily
           physical, emotional, developmental, educational and
           special needs of the child.

           (11) The proximity of the residences of the parties.

           (12) Each party’s availability to care for the child or
           ability to make appropriate child-care arrangements.

           (13) The level of conflict between the parties and the
           willingness and ability of the parties to cooperate with
           one another. A party’s effort to protect a child from
           abuse by another party is not evidence of
           unwillingness or inability to cooperate with that party.

           (14) The history of drug or alcohol abuse of a party or
           member of a party’s household.

           (15) The mental and physical condition of a party or
           member of a party’s household.

           (16) Any other relevant factor.

23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5328(a).


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       In its opinion, the trial court analyzed each of the § 5328(a) factors.5

The court found that subsections (1), (3), (9), (10), and (13) weighed in favor

of Mother, while (4), and (5) weighed in favor of Father. See Trial Court

Opinion, 10/31/17, at 10-17. In addition, the court found that subsections (2),

(6), (8), (11), (12), and (14) weighed in favor of neither party, and that

subsections (7), and (15) were irrelevant. See id., at 10 n.1, 11-13, 15-17.

       During its discussion of the § 5328(a) factors, the trial court placed

particular emphasis on Father’s tendency to delegate his co-parenting

responsibilities to Stepmother, and his resistance to communicating and

cooperating with Mother. The court’s findings with respect to subsection (a)(1)

are illustrative of these concerns.

             The first relevant factor concerns “which party is more likely
       to encourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between
       the child and another party.” At the first trial, both parties’ conduct
       limited their capacities to encourage such contact. At the present
       time, some issues remain. Mother’s conduct, however, has
       improved. While she still sends texts that can be deemed
       excessive, they are not as extensive as previously. Her
       micromanaging continues, but to a lesser extent, and she does
       not appear to be nearly as overprotective of the Minor Child as
       she was at the first trial. She has made attempts to reach out to
       Father, which Father and his wife deem insincere, but whether
       based on genuine motives or not, at least show an effort.

             Father continues to want to have as little contact with
       Mother as possible. As was the case at the first trial, it appears his
       primary purpose in filing a Petition to Modify is to limit his
       interaction with Mother. He has either delegated, or his wife has
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5 The trial court did not separately address subsection (a)(2.1). However,
there was no evidence presented during the custody hearing which related to
this factor.

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      assumed, the duty [of] responding to e-mails. Father does not
      appear to understand that if he wants to truly fulfill his duties as
      a father, that he must stand up and deal with Mother in an adult
      manner. He cannot pass off those duties to his wife or ask the
      Court to relieve him of his problem. Co-parenting is not optional,
      it is mandatory. While the [c]ourt recognizes that Mother can be
      hard to deal with, she is the Mother, and Father must make the
      effort. This factor favors Mother.

Trial Court Opinion, 10/31/17, 10-11.

      In his first issue, Father presents myriad challenges to the trial court’s

factual findings. See Father’s Brief, at 15-25. Father contends that the court

should have reached different conclusions regarding the § 5328(a) factors.

See id., at 16-25. Father further argues that the court placed an inordinate

amount of weight on the parents’ interpersonal difficulties, and that the court

should have placed greater weight on his stability, availability, and extended

family. See id., at 24-25.

      After a careful review of the record in this matter, we conclude that the

trial court did not abuse its discretion. During the custody hearing, Mother

testified at length concerning Father’s tendency to delegate his co-parenting

responsibilities to Stepmother. For example, Mother presented the court with

copies of her e-mails to Father. See Exhibit 12E. During one exchange of e-

mails, Mother sent a message to Father insisting that all contact regarding

Child “is to be between you and I.” Id. Stepmother responded to the e-mail,

saying, “Actually, [Mother], [Father] doesn’t need to talk to you at all in

person. All communication is to be done via email.” Id.




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      On another occasion, Mother testified that Stepmother called and

informed her that she did not want Child to attend a particular preschool. See

N.T., Hearing, 9/29/17 and 10/26/17 Vol. II, at 309-310. Mother recalled,

“[Stepmother] expressed to me that she wanted [Child] to attend school with

[his half-sister, M.K.] . . . . And I just thought that the conversation was

something that should have been between [Father] and I, and I thought it

was highly inappropriate . . . .” Id., at 310.

      Finally, Mother testified that Father has refused to speak to her during

custody exchanges, and left Stepmother to communicate on his behalf.

Mother explained,

      . . . . During exchanges of [Child] . . . it would be [Father] and
      [Stepmother] during exchanges, and this is me picking up [Child]
      from their house. He would often walk away from the door and
      allow [Stepmother] to speak for him. And I did try and speak to
      him about that. I would say more recently it’s gotten better, that
      really doesn’t happen more recently.

Id., at 311.

      In addition to delegating his co-parenting responsibilities, Mother

testified that Father is often nonresponsive. See id., at 312. Mother testified

that she recently attempted to schedule phone calls with Child on Sundays

during Father’s custody time; however, Father ignored Mother’s requests. See

id. Once again, Mother presented the court with copies of her e-mails to

Father. See Exhibit 1D. The exhibit reveals that Mother sent six e-mails to

Father requesting Sunday phone calls between November 29, 2016, and

January 15, 2017, before Father finally responded. See id.


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      Thus, the record supports the trial court’s finding that Father delegates

his co-parenting responsibilities to Stepmother, and that he is resistant to

communicating and cooperating with Mother. Mother makes an effort to co-

parent with Father and improve their relationship—but Father rejects these

efforts and sometimes ignores her. While Father contends that the court

should have placed less emphasis on the parents’ interpersonal difficulties,

and emphasized other considerations instead, we must defer to the court’s

weight determinations. Because the court’s conclusions were reasonable as

shown by evidence of record, we discern no abuse of discretion.

      In his second issue, Father argues that the trial court based its decision

not on Child’s best interest, but on a desire to punish Father for filing a petition

for modification of custody. See Father’s Brief, at 25-28. Father contends that

the court made statements in its opinion indicating that it was displeased with

Father for filing the petition. See id., at 26. Specifically, Father directs our

attention to court’s statements that “The matter before this court is the second

petition to modify with the trial court,” and that “Father is now, once again,

seeking primary physical custody.” Id. (quoting Trial Court Opinion, 10/31/17,

at 4). Father’s claim fails.

      For the reasons already discussed, it is clear that the trial court

considered Child’s best interest when reaching its custody decision. The record

supports the court’s findings, and its conclusions were reasonable. And our

review of the court’s opinion does not reveal any statements indicating that it

intended to punish Father. The statements relied upon by Father are

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descriptions of the procedural history and posture of this case, and do not

suggest any improper motive by the court.

      In his third issue, Father argues that the trial court erred when it ordered

that Child would attend the Exeter Township School District, where Mother

resides. See Father’s Brief, at 28-32. Father maintains, once again, that the

court based this decision not on Child’s best interest, but on a desire to “punish

Father for a perceived lack of communication and failure to co-parent . . . .”

Id., at 29-30. Father further contends that Mother’s housing situation is

unstable, because she lives in a home owned by Stepfather’s parents, and

may have to move to a different school district if she and Stepfather are unable

to reconcile their marriage. See id., 30-32.

      The trial court addressed Child’s school district after concluding its

discussion of the § 5328(a) factors.

             Regarding the school district, the continuation of the same
      schedule means that the Minor Child would be eligible to attend
      either the Exeter or Governor Mifflin School District. Both parties
      agree that either school would provide a fine education for the
      Minor Child. The fact that the Minor Child may be attending one
      school district with one set of siblings or the other school district
      with the other set of siblings does not factor in, the Minor Child
      having an excellent relationship with all of his siblings. This [c]ourt
      chooses Exeter School District for the sole reason that this court
      cannot trust Father to co-parent with Mother on a 50/50 basis.
      Because of that, this [c]ourt prefers that Mother’s school district,
      Exeter, be the school district where the Minor Child matriculates,
      forcing Father, if he intends to be involved in the Minor Child’s
      educational experience, to be involved with legal custody,
      activities, meetings with the teachers and administration, and all
      other aspects of the educational experience in a shared manner
      with Mother, not avoiding her whenever he can.



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Trial Court Opinion, 10/31/17, at 18-19.

      Father is not entitled to relief. As noted, the record supports the trial

court’s finding that Father refuses to co-parent. It was reasonable for the trial

court to conclude that Child should attend school in Mother’s school district,

so that Father must learn to communicate and cooperate. While Father

suggests that Mother may need to move to a different school district at some

unknown time in the future, this argument is mere speculation, and does not

warrant reversal of the court’s order.

      In his fourth and final issue, Father argues that the trial court erred

when it ordered that Father and Stepmother shall not permit Child to touch

any cat at any time. See Father’s Brief, at 33-35. Father contends that Mother

failed to present expert testimony to prove the severity of Child’s cat allergy,

and that the court’s order was unreasonable. See id.

      The trial court addressed Child’s cat allergy during its discussion of §

5328(a)(10).

            The only issue relating to the physical needs of the Minor
      Child concerns the cat allergy. As there was no medical testimony,
      this [c]ourt cannot properly determine whether the Minor Child
      must be kept separate from the cats. If there are open wounds as
      Mother suggests, then Father should take additional steps to
      ensure the Minor Child’s well-being. Why would any parent want
      his child to be uncomfortable, itching and scratching, because of
      an allergy that can be properly addressed? Without medical
      testimony, this [c]ourt cannot prohibit Father from having a cat,
      but will Order that Father and his wife shall ensure that the Minor
      Child is not permitted to touch the cat at any time. This factor
      favors Mother but only slightly.

Trial Court Opinion, 10/31/17, at 15.


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      Once again, our review of the record supports the trial court’s findings.

Mother testified that Child suffers from a cat allergy, which results in a rash.

See N.T., Hearing, 9/29/17 and 10/26/17 Vol. II, at 340. She believed that

Father and Stepmother continue to allow Child to touch their cat, despite this

allergy. See id., at 341. She described one incident during which Child went

to school during Father’s custody time, and had “cat hair all over his shirt.”

Id., at 343. Child developed a rash “all the way up to his armpit. . . . Down

his legs, his back, his chest, his face.” Id., at 344-47. Mother expressed

concern that Child’s rash “itches him so much to the point where he is

scratching his skin open and he is now at risk for infection when he has these

open skin wounds.” Id., at 347.

      Stepmother acknowledged that Child suffers from a cat allergy. And that

his being around the cat results in “puffiness around the eyes and little dots.

. . . Usually around the neck and the creases of his elbows.” N.T., Hearing,

9/29/17 and 10/26/17 Vol. I, at 185. Child’s last “bad reaction” resulted in

“[v]isible bumps and itchiness.” Id. at 190. Stepmother testified that she and

Father restrict Child’s contact with their cat in order to manage his allergy.

Id., at 185. She explained, “[Child] doesn’t touch [the cat]. She doesn’t go

upstairs. His door stays closed. We vacuum, dust and he takes Zyrtec.” Id.

Stepmother testified that she allowed Child to touch the cat only once and

required that he wash his hands afterward. Id.

      Similarly, Father acknowledged that Child has a cat allergy. But he

testified that it is “controllable and minor.” Id., at 201-202. Concerning the

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incident at Child’s school, Father testified that Child suffered an allergic

reaction “because he came in direct contact with cat hair.” Id., at 261. Father

explained that Child “sat somewhere the cat had been sitting on and got hair

on him. We didn’t know it by the time he left for school and it was an

unfortunate day. But it made us aware that we need to take more closer

observation on him . . . .” Id., at 203.

      In light of this testimony, the trial court did not abuse its discretion. It

is undisputed that Child suffers from a cat allergy, which results in a rash. The

symptoms of this rash include puffiness around Child’s eyes, bumps on his

skin, and itchiness. It is clear that permitting Child to touch Father and

Stepmother’s cat is contrary to his best interest, because it places him at risk

for further allergic reactions. Moreover, Stepmother testified that she and

Father already prevent Child from touching their cat. By ordering Father and

Stepmother not to allow Child to touch any cat at any time, the court was

merely ordering them to continue doing what they already do.

      Based on the foregoing, we conclude that Father’s claims do not entitle

him to relief. Therefore, we affirm the trial court’s November 1, 2017 order.

     Order affirmed.
Judgment Entered.




Joseph D. Seletyn, Esq.
Prothonotary

Date: 04/19/18



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